unrequitedlove11 Posted January 25, 2015 Posted January 25, 2015 the person I loved more than life itself is living the life I wanted with him , with someone else . he got married while we were still dealing with each other , receiving military benefits and getting everything that I couldn't give him . I've tried to talk to other guys but I get nowhere . Tatem had been trying to talk to me for the longest but I could never take him serious because he would flirt with other females up and down my timeline all day long .. He came back for a third chance and this time I was willing to let him . but just when I started opening up , I find out he has a girlfriend... and they're still together . Malcolm told me straight up he just wanted sex which had me shocked because I never had a guy approach me like that . This was a vulnerable period for me after Quentin up and left , 6 months later I gave in .. After 3 times of having sex he tells me he's not having sex with me anymore because the condoms popped all 3 times .. I never knew until he told me , I just thought he was a quick pumper until I actually seen the popped condom the last time we had sex . I definitely felt some type of way because I'm only 21 and I have a whole car to take care of ; $378.40 car payment with $177 car insurance , what do I look like trying to trap you when you're not giving me anything but good sex ??? William and I had a math class together when i first started college . He tweeted me his number ; we chilled that night and he tried to **** .. I told him I wasn't that kind of girl .. he pulled that "we talk" then asked if I was his girlfriend , I said yeah but we didn't have sex until the second time we chilled .. Then he goes back on what he said , stating we barely know each other after I admitted to liking him back then and that he didn't want a relationship and a month later he's in a relationship with a girl that has a CHILD . Justin , who my manager hooked me up with for my upcoming banquet , put up the nice guy front ; said he only wanted to build a real friendship until we chilled twice and he couldn't keep his hands off of me . I gave in the last time we chilled January 2nd and he hasn't contacted me for a week . How am I supposed to feel when I broke my morals and you just fall off the face of the earth ? Then he says when he gets to this point of having a lot of **** to deal with , he shuts everybody out because he can't even help himself . I spazzed on him twice because I felt used and I'm trying to get my banquet stuff together because I'm not about to show up with you looking stupid because our outfits aren't coordinated . I understand people go through things but this is important to me , I stressed the importance of him getting his stuff together since I last saw him . he told me we don't have to talk everyday , minute or second and that he was gonna leave me be .. I texted him yesterday , said I'm guessing I need another date , I just need a confirmation .. no text back . I don't know what I'm doing wrong .. I've tried to approach these situations differently but I get the same outcome every time when it comes to guys . I can never win . Everybody gets what they want but me ..
IfiKnewThen Posted January 25, 2015 Posted January 25, 2015 there are so great relations expert sites on youtube and i can tell you most say the sexiest thing a man can hear is "NO". i would start with make a guy really....truly earn you OVER TIME!!! when they INVEST and put work into earning your love and trust im sure they will stick around longer...or what should be for the long haul. mat boggs has a lot of cool solid advise on the maleway of thinking and how to go about things. you are NOT worthless. you just need better relationship skills. we could all use that : ) you are dealing with immature boys and someday you will meet someone who will love and respect u truly. but make them respect u. u set boundaries and dont give in. even steve harvey says make them wait. there are so many good books to read about this subject..of making a guy earn your love and respect for them. men are from mars women are from venus is another great book...etc. but check out that site. good luck God bless. 2
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