Dork Vader Posted January 25, 2015 Posted January 25, 2015 Been talking to this girl... She frequently just ignores my phone calls. She'll shoot a text I'll call and she wont answer or return the call. Rude yes... She can only seem to talk at certian times and it's rarely when she is home. She has been extremely flaky. I broke things off because of it of the flaky issues. But gave her one more chance. She always seems to have plans on saturdays. It's always some type of thing with her family. She is supposedly going out of town with her friend on valentines day. Last night we were talking on the phone and when she got home she said who is at my house.. Then panicked and said she'd call me back. She never did.. So I asked what happened and she said her dads friend stopped by and gave her flowers.. Uh okay what kind of friend stops by at 6:30 to drop off flowers?! Opinions? Can I ask if she is seeing other guys because it sure seems like it to me.. She has made it very clear I'm not allowed to talk to other women.
TG1 Posted January 25, 2015 Posted January 25, 2015 I would say go out with other women, keep your options open because it is clear that she is going out with other guys behind your back, like the evidence is literally staring you right in the face or better yet just end things altogether you will be so much better off believe me
Gaeta Posted January 25, 2015 Posted January 25, 2015 The way I am reading it you have not met yet? With what right she told you to stay away from other women?
TG1 Posted January 25, 2015 Posted January 25, 2015 I would say man definitely cut your losses man she is clearly using you
applej4 Posted January 25, 2015 Posted January 25, 2015 Cut your losses. She's playing games, seeing others, or maybe she's married. (I also don't see how she could stop you from seeing other women.) She's definitely hiding something on top of being a flake. Stop trying to figure her out and move on.
TG1 Posted January 25, 2015 Posted January 25, 2015 Cut your losses. She's playing games, seeing others, or maybe she's married. (I also don't see how she could stop you from seeing other women.) She's definitely hiding something on top of being a flake. Stop trying to figure her out and move on. Yes definitely move on and move on fast
lovexocoach Posted January 25, 2015 Posted January 25, 2015 Save yourself a lot of frustration and heart ache and move on. Seems like you're investing a lot of time and energy for little in return. Date other women. Find someone who is interested in you and gives you the respect you deserve.
BeatsByDirk Posted January 25, 2015 Posted January 25, 2015 I would be interested in getting to the bottom of everything but I definitely wouldn't get attached. Go back to dating and just see what happens. Let us know what you find out!
EgoJoe Posted January 25, 2015 Posted January 25, 2015 Next her because she has a boyfriend. She's also clearly unintelligent because her lies suck. Also she doesn't respect you because she lies to you.
Author Dork Vader Posted January 25, 2015 Author Posted January 25, 2015 I have been seeing other women and keeping my options open. She just does not know it. If she was not so flaky and I was not smelling blood in the water things would be different. Normally I would cut my losses and run but she is positive like me and that is hard to find. So I'm willing to at the very least get to the bottom of it. I'm going to first find out if her friend has a boy friend or anything. Then see if she would be willing to at least see me valentines day. I'm being fairly gaurded with her so I'm good in that department.
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