Timpye Posted January 24, 2015 Posted January 24, 2015 My exes 'new' bf came into the pub I work at tonight. Iv never seen him before but recognized him from photos. Iv been doing well at go no contact and not looking at my exes Facebook. But this almost sent me into an anxiety attack, it was the worst because I had to keep walking past him. I'm trying to keep strong and stick to nc but just been tough..
Author Timpye Posted January 24, 2015 Author Posted January 24, 2015 Really close to checking her Facebook for the first time in over a month... Agggh
NopeNah Posted January 24, 2015 Posted January 24, 2015 Sucks! I ran into my ex and her new guy at a pub a couple weeks back..tough! From what I hear,she's already cheating on him now.
Kinetica84 Posted January 24, 2015 Posted January 24, 2015 Dude, delete her from facebook and block her account. Trust me it's best. I stumbled across something by accident yesterday that confirmed to me my ex was cheating on. It damn there tore me in two. This wasn't on facebook by the way by via other social media of which i didn't know she was on. Ignorance is bliss mate. Sometimes not knowing is better. I always suspected my ex was cheating but could never prove it. 4 months on my instincts were bang and i feel AWFUL about it.
Author Timpye Posted January 25, 2015 Author Posted January 25, 2015 Dude, delete her from facebook and block her account. Trust me it's best. I stumbled across something by accident yesterday that confirmed to me my ex was cheating on. It damn there tore me in two. This wasn't on facebook by the way by via other social media of which i didn't know she was on. Ignorance is bliss mate. Sometimes not knowing is better. I always suspected my ex was cheating but could never prove it. 4 months on my instincts were bang and i feel AWFUL about it. Iv blocked her account (so I can't see her or her friends posts) and have stopped checking. I know that ignorance is best that's why I'm doing it. I don't want to delete her just incase something happens it would be weird to re add, but yeh I guess that is just some form of hope wishing which is bad. Sigh
OK_computer Posted January 25, 2015 Posted January 25, 2015 I know people may blast me for saying this and all but, Is he uglier than you? I mean, pick out something horrible about him, his looks or something, and just use that to pick yourself up. It's all about finding their weakness, and exploiting it. Just think that he's uglier than you, worst case. Ok firepants on.
OK_computer Posted January 25, 2015 Posted January 25, 2015 And just so you know you're not alone the same thing happened to me. An old ex of mine left me for a straight but hood drug dealer, and I'm a medical doctor.
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