HeBrokeMyHeart Posted January 24, 2015 Share Posted January 24, 2015 Okay so me and my ex split about 2 months ago, and we haven't spoke since. He got in a rebound relationship which seems to have cooled down since. Either way I'm pretty much over him. I'm happy with my life & no stress of a love life, I'm just focussing on me. Either way I still have the habit of checking his social media every once in a while just to see how he is. First of all the first status that struck me was 'sometimes you have to say **** it and let whatever will be, will be.' He used to say that a lot when we split, but I didn't put much thought into it as it could be to do with his new relationship. Then the other one that struck me was 'in desperate need of finding my balls.' I didn't really think much of this one just as I thought it could be to do with his new relationship or anything until today. He put a picture up of the festival we went together with our friends with the title saying 'take me back now.' At this point out relationship was at it's best and I have a lot of found memories off it, which include him. Surely if he was thinking of this time in his life his thoughts would include me. It stunned me to be honest as I tend to avoid thinking off it, because of the good memories I shared with him and it's sad to think that they are just memories now. Link to post Share on other sites
towardthefuture Posted January 24, 2015 Share Posted January 24, 2015 You'll drive yourself nuts trying to read the tea leaves. If he wanted you back he'd reach out and make some kind of contact. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
WonderWoman911 Posted January 24, 2015 Share Posted January 24, 2015 Yes, Im quite sure he was thinking about you. With him posting a picture of somewhere the two of you went then with a caption that says "Take me back now ".Yes that was directed towards you. Nonetheless he won't mention you in his thoughts on social media because the relationship is over. Link to post Share on other sites
Leigh 87 Posted January 24, 2015 Share Posted January 24, 2015 You are pretty much over him yet you still check up on his social media. Oh and you made a thread about how you wonder whether he thought about you. You are probably getting over him but you're still thinking too much of him for you to have made this thread. Yes he probably does think of you! But no, he isn't thinking of how much he regrets leaving you and how head over heels in love he really is with you. If he was crazy about you he wouldn't have left you to begin with. Even if he is having a bad time in his current relationship, which the " where are my balls" comment seems to indicate, that doesn't mean you were ever the love of his life to begin with - again, he left you so.... But yes he probably was thinking about you. Most exes do. It means nothing. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
OK_computer Posted January 24, 2015 Share Posted January 24, 2015 You are pretty much over him yet you still check up on his social media. Oh and you made a thread about how you wonder whether he thought about you. You are probably getting over him but you're still thinking too much of him for you to have made this thread. Yes he probably does think of you! But no, he isn't thinking of how much he regrets leaving you and how head over heels in love he really is with you. If he was crazy about you he wouldn't have left you to begin with. Even if he is having a bad time in his current relationship, which the " where are my balls" comment seems to indicate, that doesn't mean you were ever the love of his life to begin with - again, he left you so.... But yes he probably was thinking about you. Most exes do. It means nothing. They think about you when they see you, and then it's gone! Link to post Share on other sites
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