InsaneTrombone Posted January 24, 2015 Posted January 24, 2015 I've known this girl for a while now and we've been out once. Every now and then our text conversations will get flirty and a little sexual. But she doesn't really participate back, just kind of keeps it going. I'm not sure what to make of it, because in a way she invites the sexual conversation to take place / continue but it falls flat like shes too busy. IE: 'Oh the things I'd do do you' 'Oh Yeah? Like what?' 'I'd need to do blah blah blah and blah blah blah while blah blah blahing your neck etc etc 'Is that so?' 'Yeah, is that a problem?' 'Not at all, what else do you want to do to me?' 'More sexual blah blahs' 'ooh lah lah' 'I bet you'd like that' 'It's possible.' -------------------------------------------- So I guess what I'm trying to figure out here is - if she wasn't interested in me, she wouldn't be bothering with any of this bull****, right? Am I wasting my time trying to push the envelope here?
thousandsuns Posted January 24, 2015 Posted January 24, 2015 I've known this girl for a while now and we've been out once. Every now and then our text conversations will get flirty and a little sexual. But she doesn't really participate back, just kind of keeps it going. I'm not sure what to make of it, because in a way she invites the sexual conversation to take place / continue but it falls flat like shes too busy. IE: 'Oh the things I'd do do you' 'Oh Yeah? Like what?' 'I'd need to do blah blah blah and blah blah blah while blah blah blahing your neck etc etc 'Is that so?' 'Yeah, is that a problem?' 'Not at all, what else do you want to do to me?' 'More sexual blah blahs' 'ooh lah lah' 'I bet you'd like that' 'It's possible.' -------------------------------------------- So I guess what I'm trying to figure out here is - if she wasn't interested in me, she wouldn't be bothering with any of this bull****, right? Am I wasting my time trying to push the envelope here? Sounds like you are texting the same kinda girl I'm texting right now. Girls like this typically don't know how to sext or are just shy lol. It's not necessarily that their busy but just aren't too experienced with talking sexually over text. The only way you can bring them out of their shell is to test the water in person and see if they have an attraction for you then. At the end of the day you want to get the real deal, not just words from a text right? However, feel free to tease her a little on text playfully (i.e. make it flirty and sexual) and see if she gives you a little more in return. Good luck!
lovexocoach Posted January 24, 2015 Posted January 24, 2015 If you've only been out ONCE then I'd suggest backing off on the sexting. Flirting is fine but sexting is pushing it too far because it's way too early to be doing that, in my opinion. When you start sexting you make it sound that all you want from her is sex rather than a relationship. You have to woo her and romance her first. 1
preraph Posted January 24, 2015 Posted January 24, 2015 I don't know why people waste their time sexting when they could be cuddled up somewhere in person. Most women are not going to be interested in sexting and get really yawny when guys do it. She sounds like she's just putting up with it and nothing more. You should stop it and ask her out. 2
Author InsaneTrombone Posted January 24, 2015 Author Posted January 24, 2015 I don't know why people waste their time sexting when they could be cuddled up somewhere in person. Most women are not going to be interested in sexting and get really yawny when guys do it. She sounds like she's just putting up with it and nothing more. You should stop it and ask her out. Busy schedules.
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