jrog Posted January 23, 2015 Posted January 23, 2015 She goes to school during the week and I work during the week if we try to hang out after work she lives with her mom so her mom tells her to always be home by ten sucks when I live an hour away. Giving us a few hours. On weekends I can see her almost every Sunday but if a club she is in is doing something Saturday she will go with them. If her friends are doing a party or just wanting to hang out she will go with them. I want to see her more and I try to trust her but she doesn't drive and all I ask is she be safe and maybe give me a heads up to where she might be headed and she feels I'm trying to control her when I just want to know she's alright. I do alot for her and she makes me happy but when it comes to us doing stuff I'm always planning out everything cause she will tell me she doesn't know what we Can do. We've been together 11 months. Aren't we supposed to be a team and plan stuff together?
NoC Posted January 24, 2015 Posted January 24, 2015 Sounds like she takes you for granted. I suggest you discuss these issues with her from a non-accusatory point of view e.g "babe I feel you don't make enough time for me" etc. If she cares about you, she will work with you to make things work. If she doesn't try to fix anything, then buy yourself a one way ticket to North Carolina (see sig). Life is too short to spend your time and energy on those who don't appreciate it. 2
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