GTR King Posted January 22, 2015 Posted January 22, 2015 Ok so last week started talking to this girl on tinder... On sat asked for her number and she gave it to me... Since then we have been texting loads e.g long messages etc and she seems really interested and says she really looking forward to meeting me. We have agreed to meet up on the 1st feb as that when we are both free. Haven't decided on time and place yet but decided to go for a drink.. Haven't heard from her since last night (11.20ish) Texted her about 1.45ish today to see how her day is going etc... How long should I Leave it before she texts me?/I text her? I hope I Haven't blown it and she won't see me etc. She did say she was really shy but wanna see me
lovexocoach Posted January 22, 2015 Posted January 22, 2015 Give her time. You don't know what her life is like or what she's doing. Usually, I'd wait for her to text back. There are no hard and fast rules. What you've done so far sounds fine. If you don't hear from her by later tonite, send her one more text to let her know you're thinking about her. Suggest you keep things casual but interesting. Pace your texts otherwise you'll overwhelm her, become a nuisance, and turn her off.
Author GTR King Posted January 22, 2015 Author Posted January 22, 2015 (edited) Ok thanks i will try she always seems interested and waffles on about things she likes to me via text etc and she asks me questions... I will sent her one more tonight before I go bed and then leave her to it... As don't wanna be to clingy... E.g tell her the plan for our date etc... If she don't reply by tomorrow evening/sat morning will know she has flaked etc.... But will have faith and not think of the worst... I usually wait for her to reply etc... the last few girls I Have talked to have flaked etc and was hoping this one won't happen but it's part of OLD so if it dose will move on... Also she hasn't logged on tinder since she got my number Edited January 22, 2015 by GTR King
smackie9 Posted January 22, 2015 Posted January 22, 2015 Just giving you the heads up Tinder is mostly for people who just want to hook up.
Author GTR King Posted January 22, 2015 Author Posted January 22, 2015 (edited) Thanks for the advice... Me worrying to much lol.. she has text me so all good... I have a feeling this one will go further than 1 date Edited January 22, 2015 by GTR King
Author GTR King Posted January 25, 2015 Author Posted January 25, 2015 Update... This girl has text me 3-4 times every day so far (Not text today but will later)... She usually text me in the evenings.. All the messages that she sends me are quite long and have quite a bit of banter.... She seems really interesting and wants to tell me loads about her self... When I ask her questions about things she is doing she always waffles on about that subject.... Sometimes when I don't text her 1st she says I have been quiet and is everything ok... I just tell her it's all ok ... We are meeting up next Sunday at 12 and she said is really looking forward to it and hopes the 1st date goes well So do you guys think she is really interested in me??
TG1 Posted January 25, 2015 Posted January 25, 2015 I would say that she is definitely interested in you most definitely but it is only up to you to take the initiative and take charge and make the next move
acrosstheuniverse Posted January 25, 2015 Posted January 25, 2015 Update... This girl has text me 3-4 times every day so far (Not text today but will later)... She usually text me in the evenings.. All the messages that she sends me are quite long and have quite a bit of banter.... She seems really interesting and wants to tell me loads about her self... When I ask her questions about things she is doing she always waffles on about that subject.... Sometimes when I don't text her 1st she says I have been quiet and is everything ok... I just tell her it's all ok ... We are meeting up next Sunday at 12 and she said is really looking forward to it and hopes the 1st date goes well So do you guys think she is really interested in me?? Sounds great so far. But you don't know how either of you are going to feel once you've met. The VAST majority of my first dates never led onto anything else. It's just the dating game. Look forward to seeing her but take it slow, suss her out as to whether YOU are interested in HER, don't be worrying the whole time whether she likes you or not. And try not to fast forward in your mind to your next date, your first kiss, moving in together, getting married, having kids
Author GTR King Posted January 25, 2015 Author Posted January 25, 2015 Thanks I am playing it cool... I will text her 1st every other day and let her text me 1st every other day and don't wanna over do it... We both like the same Football (Soccer) team and like going to the same restaurant and few other things in common etc... I Made the 1st move few days ago and arranged a date and she accepted my offer... Not gonna rush things...
TG1 Posted January 25, 2015 Posted January 25, 2015 Thanks I am playing it cool... I will text her 1st every other day and let her text me 1st every other day and don't wanna over do it... We both like the same Football (Soccer) team and like going to the same restaurant and few other things in common etc... I Made the 1st move few days ago and arranged a date and she accepted my offer... Not gonna rush things... Yes take things slow most definitely and you will achieve your required results
Author GTR King Posted January 25, 2015 Author Posted January 25, 2015 Thanks she did say she was nervous/shy but take things slow at the start and text 2-3 times a day not loads as save the talking for he date
TG1 Posted January 25, 2015 Posted January 25, 2015 Thanks she did say she was nervous/shy but take things slow at the start and text 2-3 times a day not loads as save the talking for he date Then I would say things are definitely working out for you, glad to help
Author GTR King Posted January 25, 2015 Author Posted January 25, 2015 (edited) Thanks you for the advice... She texted me saying sorry that she hasn't replied as she was busy etc and what she been up to etc... I told her no need to be sorry and replied to her text.... Once I text her I always wait for her to reply..... Will update on here how date goes etc... But it all looks good Edited January 25, 2015 by GTR King
Author GTR King Posted January 26, 2015 Author Posted January 26, 2015 (edited) I have dated before... She texted me today about 10pm Girl: You've been quiet hope you're ok x Me: O I am good thanks... Sorry for not texting today How have you been? xxx Girl: Good I'm glad you're ok that's ok no worries, I hope you've had a good day and you have a good day tomorrow I'll speak to you soon I'm sure xx Me: That's good hehehe.... Yeah I will have a good day tomz & I hope you do as well... I am looking forward to seeing you Sunday .... You been up to much this evening? xxxx No Reply yet probably gone to bed.. Why would she say that?? she usually says that when I haven't texted her that day... Do I need to text her 1st more often?? Is she loosing interest in me?? Is there anything I need to do?? Should I text her 1st tomorrow?? or should I move on?? She is a shy/nervous Girl Edited January 26, 2015 by GTR King
Author GTR King Posted January 28, 2015 Author Posted January 28, 2015 Quick update everything is going really well so far... She told me she is really looking forward to seeing me Sunday and is nervous/scared about the 1st date but wanna meet up and get to know me... Will post more updates soon
smackie9 Posted January 28, 2015 Posted January 28, 2015 I have dated before... She texted me today about 10pm Girl: You've been quiet hope you're ok x Me: O I am good thanks... Sorry for not texting today How have you been? xxx Girl: Good I'm glad you're ok that's ok no worries, I hope you've had a good day and you have a good day tomorrow I'll speak to you soon I'm sure xx Me: That's good hehehe.... Yeah I will have a good day tomz & I hope you do as well... I am looking forward to seeing you Sunday .... You been up to much this evening? xxxx No Reply yet probably gone to bed.. Why would she say that?? she usually says that when I haven't texted her that day... Do I need to text her 1st more often?? Is she loosing interest in me?? Is there anything I need to do?? Should I text her 1st tomorrow?? or should I move on?? She is a shy/nervous Girl And you say you have dated before????
Author GTR King Posted January 28, 2015 Author Posted January 28, 2015 yess I have date a few times before
Author GTR King Posted February 1, 2015 Author Posted February 1, 2015 (edited) Update Date went really well i think... We chatted loads for nearly 2 hours. I bought her a coke and we sat down (Went to costa coffee) She seemed really interested in me and kept asking me loads of questions etc... She was always smiling and looking at me and played with her hair a few times. she got her phone out once that was to show me pictures of her with Ipswich town players (Football/soccer players).. There was no awkward silences etc... At end of date she said thanks for a lovely time will check my dairy when I Get home... But should be free next Sunday if you are up for it... I said thats fine We then hugged ands kissed each other on the cheek and went home When i got home about 30 mins later I texted her now gonna wait till she text me.... Edited February 1, 2015 by GTR King 1
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