Changing Her Mind?

[Hopes]

Okay, I asked a girl out a while back.. I was really all about this girl. Doesn't happen to me much. She said no. F...! Anyway, in a sort of rejection rebound, I asked out this cute little italian girl. She isn't the hottest, but pretty attractive. She is tiny and I am a bigger guy, so kinda funny difference, but she also said no! F... Again!

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However, the italian (name: T) and I became pretty good friends over the last three months. She said no because she was in love with someone else apparently here, but he has since rejected her. In her opening up to me, I told her about being rejected as well right before. However, as I am pretty confident (borderline arrogant some might say), I pushed for the first girl a few times. Made her dinner, got her some xmas gift (she got me one too neat), had a few nights out with her and again gave it another shot. Rejected thrice! Oh man, my heart hurts.

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All this time, I am talking to T about things (fb, whatsapp, in person), how much like this girl.. T starts mentioning that she is jealous. I tell her she can't be. I think T is joking a lot. Fast forward to new year, I was ill and couldn't go out. T came over and made me dinner, spent the night with me until 3 am. We smoked a spliff (couldn't drink) and at one point she snuggled a little with me around 3 am before going home. I made no move on her, I mean she rejected me months earlier.

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T and I were talking about our sexual drought, mine caused by chasing the wrong girl. Her's because I don't know why... I told T that I was done chasing this girl, she was just causing me grief and it was a waste of effort. I ended up hooking up with another girl and we talked about it. T seemed to be jealous about this. "That didn't take you long", "you're such a cassanova", etc... We were talking about how she needs to find someone on facebook messenger, and she mentions she has had great guys, and awful guys, but she wants a man in the middle. I made the joke about being awesome with sex and snuggles, but that my snuggles are the best. "She asked me if I was propsing to be the middle man." and then "hahaha awesome!" I didn't know what to say, so I just said that "I did that months ago ;)" We let that line fade after then.

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Normally, I would assume T just wants to be friends, but lately, with the jealousy talk, the comments about me being funny, a cassanova, our sexual talk, the fact that she recently has started ignoring all guys when we are out together.. makes me think she has let her guy go and maybe is starting to like me. I can not tell at all. When I ignored her on fb for some time to see what would happen, I got a message after 4 days asking if everything was okay.

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I mean, is it possible she is into me? If I ask again, would it cause a problem with our friendship? I think she is a very fun girl and has a good sense of humor and is a good friend (spending new years with me so I didn't have to be alone).. I care about her so I would hate to ruin that.