RoxStar Posted March 30, 2005 Posted March 30, 2005 I broke no contact. I had to call him to tell him that his phone bill came in the mail. His phone bill is in my name because he didnt have any identification (lost his drivers license at the bar one night and never got a new one) to get a new phone when his last one died. He also has some other mail at my house because he told people my address was his address. (Keep in mind he has issues with lying) So we talked for a while and he was a little defensive and he is willing to just let this all go. He doesnt want to change anything. I think he would be fine if I said ok lets just go back to the way we were and he would say OK. I would be unhappy but my happiness isnt that important I guess. So at this point I cant be upset about it. I tried. I gave it my all. I care about him but this is just how it has to be. Maybe down the road things will be different but for now I told him that we cant just immediately jump to being friends. We both need some time to move on. If we just jump right back to being friends we will end up more then friends again and back in the same place in three months. He doesnt see my point on that but its happened with us before. About a year and a half ago we had some issues and we stopped seeing each other and that lasted about a week or two and then we were all out one night and all of a sudden he and I were back in our routine. So today is day one of no contact all over again. Today doesnt feel as bad as it has so maybe that just means that this is right.
simon_uk Posted March 30, 2005 Posted March 30, 2005 I dont think you have much to worry about, you called for a valid reason. Maybe your conversation turned towards your relationship but thats not why you called. Just try not to conatct him anymore. If you need to let him know anymore bills have arrived, either send him a short text or email or whatever, but dont call him, just tell him what you have to and nothing more. Easier said than done 'I Know' but at least in a text, you wont run off track and bring up the relationship. Love Simon
Donut Posted March 30, 2005 Posted March 30, 2005 It's a set back, but only a temporary one. Get the phone bill changed to his name and address asap. Re-direct the other post to his new address as well.
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