Spartan040 Posted January 22, 2015 Posted January 22, 2015 I'm nearly 18, and my dick is just a little under 6" erect, and has about a 5.3 inch circumference. I know this is average, but is it possible to give a girl as good of sex with what I have that a guy with an eight or nine incher would be able to, provided we both know what we're doing? I've talked to a number of women, ranging in levels of attractiveness and experience, and I can never get a clear consensis. Honestly, it bugs me because like everyone else I want to be the best for the girl I'm with, both for the sake of my ego and for her enjoyment. I feel like if I didn't top every other guy she was ever with, she'd be wasting her time having sex with me, regardless of the rest of the relationship, and I'd feel kind of like less of a man. Am I being too hard on myself or stressing too much? I am a virgin, maybe I worry simply because of inexperience. 1
rbrock2323 Posted January 22, 2015 Posted January 22, 2015 You have nothing to worry about. Besides, any woman only worrying about that will have even bigger problems a few years down the road when they're stuck with 3 kids, no job, no financial stability, no decent men desiring them, and living near, or under, the poverty line. Worry more about securing your future and less about such a trivial matter such as living up to her expectations of sex based off the men she's screwed but, for some reason, no longer with. 1
Kitkatleen24 Posted January 22, 2015 Posted January 22, 2015 I'm nearly 18, and my dick is just a little under 6" erect, and has about a 5.3 inch circumference. I know this is average, but is it possible to give a girl as good of sex with what I have that a guy with an eight or nine incher would be able to, provided we both know what we're doing? I've talked to a number of women, ranging in levels of attractiveness and experience, and I can never get a clear consensis. Honestly, it bugs me because like everyone else I want to be the best for the girl I'm with, both for the sake of my ego and for her enjoyment. I feel like if I didn't top every other guy she was ever with, she'd be wasting her time having sex with me, regardless of the rest of the relationship, and I'd feel kind of like less of a man. Am I being too hard on myself or stressing too much? I am a virgin, maybe I worry simply because of inexperience. I don't think you have to worry about that. A girl who truly loves you wouldn't care much. Most girls says bad things after a break up but when it comes to being their boyfriend, i think most girls wouldn't care. I don't have much experience so i can't tell you much but i personally wouldn't care. It is possible to give a good sex, it's not about the size but more of how you use it. Unless it's as small as your pinky finger, i think you have nothing to worry about. I guess it's more of the intimate feeling we get more than anything. Sometimes bigger doesn't mean better, it might hurt too. Learn through experience. Don't let your inexperience stops you from anything. Just relax. If a girl judge you on that, you probably already know what kind of girl she is. If she's sincere, she could share tips with you or teach you some stuff. 2
EgoJoe Posted January 22, 2015 Posted January 22, 2015 Learn positions that help you penetrate deeply and it won't matter. Be amazing for a non biological purpose and you'll be an appreciating asset. Otherwise you're a depreciating asset. 1
Ebelskiver Posted January 22, 2015 Posted January 22, 2015 I think your insecurity comes from your young age and inexperience. Eventually you realize that size doesn't really matter. Skill is such an important part of lovemaking. Foreplay....for god's sake, is so important. A great idea would be to pick up a book on skills, how to go down on a woman, how to finger her, how to pay attention to her whole body, how to tease her so she's begging you for more. Penis size is really secondary to all of that. What's really awesome is that all of the above are learnable skills. 2
lovexocoach Posted January 22, 2015 Posted January 22, 2015 Sometimes size does matter. Most times it doesn't. Most women don't climax from intercourse alone so if you know how to satisfy a woman in other ways you'll be an amazing lover in her eyes. If you learn other skills that arouse and satisfy a woman chances are she won't even think about your size. 1
Ruby Slippers Posted January 22, 2015 Posted January 22, 2015 My best lover to date was average in size. He was strong, adventurous, and a very generous lover. You're not getting a consensus because some women truly are "size queens" - like the guys who are only interested in women with very large breasts. And that's their prerogative. The majority of women are not size queens, so this isn't anything you need to worry about. 1
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