Having a crush on someone is NOT a crime

[Lernaean_Hydra]

Well if you don't understand my point by now then you really have a problem. I'm not even going to waste my breath just because you don't understand. It was never my intention to make sure you understand where I'm coming from and its not my problem that you don't

 

 

Out of the two of us I seriously doubt it's me who has the problem but okay Darren...

[Anela]

And it is also not a crime to refuse to act on my crush even if it proves to be reciprocated. I have every right to not make a move even if the woman feels the same way and behaves in a way that is encouraging me to make a move. But that's beside the point.

 

I'm sorry, but this is really confusing. You like her, she likes you, so you aren't asking her out?

 

I also don't know what this has to do with racism, unless you are racist, and feel that you shouldn't be attracted.

[Gloria25]

I'm sorry, but this is really confusing. You like her, she likes you, so you aren't asking her out?

 

I also don't know what this has to do with racism, unless you are racist, and feel that you shouldn't be attracted.

 

I'll clarify here....

 

He likes her and she likes him, but he's not available to date her because his interests lie in other people. So, he just enjoys the attention/giddies/ego boost from having a chick with the hots for him.

 

But she wants more, and he feels that there's nothing wrong with him not wanting more with her - which is his right (I totally agree with him...you can't force anyone to date you).

 

But, when he sees she gets frustrated cuz she gets grandiose delusions over things he does that he considers "subtle", he'll come and post to vent that he doesn't believe he is doing anything wrong here (a crime I guess).

 

So, I believe that since he's clear that she's not to interpret anything he does as a sign of interest and she has no right to expect anything from him, she's smart enough to finally i "get it" and move on...

 

And it is working, she doesn't even have horny fantasies about him anymore. Now, she's gotta work on the sneakin' peeks...but, she's doing a little bit better every day. Now, she is also going through some other stresses (and her period is around the corner) so, she has some days she has a set-back, but again, she's got the message and has moved on.