DollWelch Posted January 21, 2015 Posted January 21, 2015 I had met a younger (3 years younger to be exact) man back in June of 2014. He and I had exchanged contact information and communicated for a number of weeks until things kind-of slowly slipped into a fade. I didn't hear from him for at least 2 months. Fast forward a couple of months later (in the Fall of 2014), and he suddenly contacts me. Before this point, I had written him off since I figured he found someone else or simply lost interest. I didn't make much out of the contact, but I did ask him why he is bothering with me now. Apparently he had moved across the country as part of his work and school commitments. Again, I chalked it up and thought I would keep it casual (friendly basis). The communication continued up until to where he and I are right now. He has been quite flirtatious, playful, and doesn't shy away from contacting me to talk when he has the time. About a month ago, he mentioned that he will be in my town in February and wanted to meet up for dinner. I was taken aback by the suggestion, and surprised at the fact that he proposed the idea -I sort of assumed he must have someone (although he has said he wasn't dating anyone -but I don't know how true that is), but I agreed to seeing him. I made it clear that I didn't want to do dinner (as that can be quite lengthy) and instead suggested drinks. He agreed. I left it at, let me know when you're in town and we can take it from there. Although he is an intelligent and talented young man with a successful career that I find quite intimidating (I would be lying if I said I wasn't nervous), I don't know why he decided to get in touch with me. Is he serious about meeting up? Or is he leading me on? And a part of me feels that, if I do meet up with him and we end up having a great date, what then? I don't see how this could be anything more than a friendly or casual meet up. What's in it for me? Or him? Thoughts?
Assada Posted January 22, 2015 Posted January 22, 2015 OP your Self-esteems seems super low:( He's going to see what type of person you are, and he thinks that you might potentially be a fun girl. Find some confidence in yourself and go out and have a good time Stop over thinking it, and just have fun. Youre a valuable person
Ebelskiver Posted January 22, 2015 Posted January 22, 2015 He's certainly interested, but in what is the question. If you want a casual one night thing, then sleep with him. If you want the "potential" for a relationship (gf/bf) then don't sleep with him, but do go out and have a fun and flirty good time. It seems he's rather far away. So that makes me think he's just hoping to get laid. Most people avoid LTR set ups.
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