Every Girl I Ever Dated Came Begging Me Back After Leaving Me...No Contact

[cottom]

These are for adult, sexual relations...

 

Girlfriend 1: 2009-11

Girlfriend 2: 2011-11 (2 months)

Girlfriend 3: 2011-13

Girlfriend 4: 2013-14

Girlfriend 5: 2014-14 (2 months)

 

Girlfriend 1, we broke up because she felt the relationship was far too intense and emtional at her experience to handle and maybe we should try at a later date. Well, she actually took the longest to come back. Back in 2014 she came over to me in a club and told me she wanted me and regrets leaving, i ignored her and she went off crying and left the club.

 

Girlfriend 2 was the first to come back, she left me to get back with her ex but then came back to tell me she shouldnt have done it and she wants me back. I was with girlfriend 3 at the time so turned her down.

 

Girlfriend 3, we broke up because she was at university, she got GiGS and thought she wanted to be single partying like the rest of her flat mates. She got with a guy in her halls, about 12 months later she came back to me, texting me how much she loves me and her heart hurts everyday and she wants me back so badly. I begrudgingly turned her down because i was with girlfriend 4.

 

Girlfriend 4, after i had to move away with work i became distant and unresponsive and she ended up in the arms of another man. I found she was cheating about 2 weeks into it so we broke up.

She came back to me messaging how much she loved me and cried everyday i left, she regrets what she did, she wants to grow old with me, when i broke up with girlfriend 5 and we started meeting secretly because nobody liked her and would have gone mad if they found out we was meeting. I stopped meeting when my mate took a photo of her in a club kissing a guy she was supposedly mates with, but she still continues to attempt to contact me to this day.

 

Girlfriend 5, we didnt really suit, she was 4 years younger and just sat on her phone 24/7, she liked the attention of guys and wasnt really into face to face talking. She works next door to my mates shop so i am regularly in there and see her quite often, i blank her but she started messaging me on facebook how much she missed me. I bumped into her in a club and we ended up on it that night, i text her in bursts now and again over the past 2 weeks but i know not to mess with someone that distant, every time we met it felt like an awkward first date.

 

 

Every single girl there left me, all of them got with a guy straight after me and then broke up with them guys because it wasnt me and ended up coming back to me when i gave No Contact, but the beauty of No Contact was it helped me get over them, i didnt want them back at all. That made me feel empowered, having girls chase after you that you can have when you want but you wont have.

 

Yet i still can't find a girlfriend at the moment, im the kind of guy that doesnt do being single. I like a girl there to love, and show me love, to hug me in the night and to wake up to and see a smile. I dont have any mates really, i have 1 or 2 but i live 100 miles away in the middle of nowhere. I have girls begging me back i must have done something right!

[gnick]

Cheers. I don't have near that success rate. Maybe one in 4. I would love my last one to come back

[erklat]

That's nice. Ex that brought me here dumped me, except her I was

always in the role of dumper and I reached out to all of my exes.

 

Number one whom I dated 3 years turned me down after I reached out

more than 2 years later.

 

Second turned me down after year and a half. Last week I heard she was

poking around about me and is it true that I'll have a baby with my current

girlfriend.

 

I reached out both times. I have to admit my life wasn't on its highest at the moment.