brasco123 Posted January 21, 2015 Posted January 21, 2015 Alright so I date a lot of girls. This weekend on Sunday night I met a girl up to play pool. I met her on Tinder (kind of my hobby.) Was texting her a couple of days real slow and she said we should go to a comedy show but as that's a bad date II asked her play pool. We did the small talk text for a bit then she just stopped responding. This was on a Tuesday. I didn't talk to her until Saturday I text her that I can be at the pool place at 7. 24 hours later she texts that she's going to be there. So she shows up and it's a great time and we totally connect. When we left she went in for the kiss and we made out a bit then I asked of she wanted to see a comedy show on saturday. She said yes. I tried calling her the next day but she didn't answer so I just texted her that I was going to buy the tickets for the show and we'll go at 8. Haven't heard from her and it's wednesday! Little background. She's in her last year of med school so I don't think she has much time. Little more... so I kind of went back on tinder a couple times and a she was on at midnight the night we hung out the didn't come back until 40 minutes after my text. She hasn't been back on since though I stopped going back on because I think she might be mad because I went back on tinder. So what's going on here? Is she blowing me off or is she busy? Is she mad because I was back on tinder after a great date (I'm just used to going on all the time.?) What should I do now? Not go back on tinder and try to confirm the date for Saturday on Friday??? 1
Omei Posted January 21, 2015 Posted January 21, 2015 You're putting in much more effort than her anyone thats interested in someone likes to make it known and stays in connection. 1
Assada Posted January 22, 2015 Posted January 22, 2015 You just have to do the same thing you did the first time. Nothing more. And you'll be golden. If she doesnt show, take someone else. She's not your girlfriend yet, you dont even know her yet. So stop trying to guess her feelings and overthinking 1
RocketScientist Posted January 22, 2015 Posted January 22, 2015 (edited) ok... if youre dating a girl on Tinder, you need to sleep with them on the first date... that is what tinder is for... dont make out then stop there thats like hitting a homerun and then stopping at 3rd base... if you want to 'fix' this dont send her anything for a while, go on a couple other dates with other girls and sleep with them, she might come back around... if she responds sometime this week go cold and still go on other dates with other girls Edited January 22, 2015 by RocketScientist 1
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