why did my ex unfriend me?

[Haydn]

I`ve said it before, but what people do on their social media is their business. I don`t even notice who un-friends me, or i un-friend as they are not that important. (At all)

 

Pay it no attention.

[tuxedo cat]

I composed a long, nasty message to him that I didn't end up sending or intend to send. But it was good to get it out of my system and it made me aware that I have some residual anger toward him for his selfish behavior when we were together, hence my irritation when he deleted me. It's probably a good thing that we've cut the cord.

[aggie382]

I composed a long, nasty message to him that I didn't end up sending or intend to send. But it was good to get it out of my system and it made me aware that I have some residual anger toward him for his selfish behavior when we were together, hence my irritation when he deleted me. It's probably a good thing that we've cut the cord.

 

You seemed to think highly enough of him in the OP to be hurt that he no longer wanted to be friends, and now you're quite angry and saying stuff like this and calling him insane in an earlier post. It's like you're idealizing him and then devaluing him.

[Anela]

Is this the ex you sent a text to, the other day?

 

*edit. It isn't. I just checked the other thread.

[tuxedo cat]

You seemed to think highly enough of him in the OP to be hurt that he no longer wanted to be friends, and now you're quite angry and saying stuff like this and calling him insane in an earlier post. It's like you're idealizing him and then devaluing him.

 

What's your problem? Stop stalking my threads.

 

It's possible to both feel positively about someone and also be angry at them. And yes he is a little crazy but that doesn't mean I didn't value our friendship.

[tuxedo cat]

Is this the ex you sent a text to, the other day?

 

*edit. It isn't. I just checked the other thread.

 

No, different ex!

Edited January 21, 2015 by tuxedo cat