Author Jay13094 Posted January 24, 2015 Author Posted January 24, 2015 Essentially, he doesn't want to completely lose you so he is going to keep you in his back pocket...under the guise of a friendship. yeah, he's been saying how he still wants to chill and hang out but i can't and won't let him do that. All the while, he knows damn right well that he could just pick up the phone and have you running back at a snap of his finger. You know how to strike back at a player, by completely shutting off all contact with him. Now normally, these girls would end up texting after a few weeks when the dust settles... I was in NC with him for about 1.5 weeks and i messed it up yesterday since he texted me asking if i was going to this party which i was already at. He brought this girl that i met though him and they used to talk (he doesn't know i know that) but supposedly she was in love with him and etc she has a bf but like it seems like he's just used to hanging out with his old 'flings" and his old "flings" always coming back to him. Just like did. When he dropped me off, I asked if he wanted to crash (like a drunk idiot) if he had no where else to go. And he said he was going to stay if he didn't have to drop his friend off. Now I have to retract and start all over again. But if Valeria were to respond to you, would you have gotten into a relationship with her.. or eventually do the same thing again?
AlexfromBoston Posted January 24, 2015 Posted January 24, 2015 Essentially, he doesn't want to completely lose you so he is going to keep you in his back pocket...under the guise of a friendship. yeah, he's been saying how he still wants to chill and hang out but i can't and won't let him do that. All the while, he knows damn right well that he could just pick up the phone and have you running back at a snap of his finger. You know how to strike back at a player, by completely shutting off all contact with him. Now normally, these girls would end up texting after a few weeks when the dust settles... I was in NC with him for about 1.5 weeks and i messed it up yesterday since he texted me asking if i was going to this party which i was already at. He brought this girl that i met though him and they used to talk (he doesn't know i know that) but supposedly she was in love with him and etc she has a bf but like it seems like he's just used to hanging out with his old 'flings" and his old "flings" always coming back to him. Just like did. When he dropped me off, I asked if he wanted to crash (like a drunk idiot) if he had no where else to go. And he said he was going to stay if he didn't have to drop his friend off. Now I have to retract and start all over again. But if Valeria were to respond to you, would you have gotten into a relationship with her.. or eventually do the same thing again? I was very attracted to Valeria...she was smart, extremely attractive, career oriented and had a certain "Latina attitude" that I'm strangely attracted to. So to answer your question, yes, I would pursue a relationship with her. The fact that she essentially blocked me out of her life actually drew me closer to her. I was blown away...it was the first time I felt as though the women had the upper hand. As I said, she completely sucked the wind out of my sails. She made me feel insecure and at the time, I was a pretty cocky guy. Ill just say it, I was a complete "d-bag". So Jay, I think if you just blot him out of your life, you can regain the upper hand. Do not jump to his texts and don't answer him for a few weeks. If he's persistent, feel feel to shoot him a brief response but don't get to involved in a convo with him. If you see him out, say hi and move on. DO NOT engage in a conversation with him. But DONT ignore him either, because us men can sense how contrived it appears. If you look like you don't care anymore, he will sweat bullets. Now, this will only work if he had some attraction/chemistry with you, otherwise you could've been just another conquest...which sadly, you can't do anything about. I mean, you know his personality better than I(obviously) so only you can gauge how serious he was about the two of you. If you're having doubts, just block him out and move on.
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