lostinthewilderness Posted March 30, 2005 Posted March 30, 2005 me and my partner seperated nearly 3 months ago and im still as lost as when we split up.we have 2 children together and were together for 7 years , then one day she said it wasn't working and wanted to end it , i asked her what the problem was and alls she did was bring up stuff that happened 5 years ago , i think she was useing any excuse she could without telling me the truth so i sent her a couple of loving emails explaining my feelings for her , telling her how wonderful she was and how much i wanted it to work, her only reply was "i won't work" and can we still be friends well despite her saying that we haven't said more than two words to each other in the last 2 month and she's minimized my contact with the children even though im a good dad i know that she has kept the emails that i sent her , why would she do this is they did'nt mean anything to her ? i love this person with all my heart and my feelings haven't changed for her ive sat back and given her time to think things over but to no avail i know time has no meaning in love , should i get on and forget about her or should i give her some more time to see if her feelings change
simon_uk Posted March 30, 2005 Posted March 30, 2005 Hi I am sorry to hear of your pain. Should you fight or move on, well the answer is both. Move on, try and enjoy your life and dont fight what she is telling you. Just be pleasent, agree with what she is telling you, tell her you understand and let her go. By doing this you are actually fighting but by using sstealth tactics. Love Simon
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