jake2495 Posted January 19, 2015 Posted January 19, 2015 I guess now it's time for me to give up. I feel it's time Got a picture of you beside me.Got you're lipstick mark still on your coffee cup.Got a fist of pure emotion.Got a head of shattered dreams.Gotta leave it, gotta leave it all behind now. Whatever I said, whatever I did I didn't mean it.I just want you back for good.Whenever I'm wrong just tell me the song and I'll sing it.You'll be right and understood. Unaware but underlined I figured out this story.It wasn't good.But in the corner of my mind I celebrated glory. But that was not to be.In the twist of separation you excelled at being free.Can't you find a little room inside for me. And we'll be together, this time is forever.We'll be fighting and forever we will be.So complete in our love.We will never be uncovered again
bigtrouble Posted January 19, 2015 Posted January 19, 2015 I guess now it's time for me to give up. I feel it's time Got a picture of you beside me.Got you're lipstick mark still on your coffee cup.Got a fist of pure emotion.Got a head of shattered dreams.Gotta leave it, gotta leave it all behind now. Whatever I said, whatever I did I didn't mean it.I just want you back for good.Whenever I'm wrong just tell me the song and I'll sing it.You'll be right and understood. Unaware but underlined I figured out this story.It wasn't good.But in the corner of my mind I celebrated glory. But that was not to be.In the twist of separation you excelled at being free.Can't you find a little room inside for me. And we'll be together, this time is forever.We'll be fighting and forever we will be.So complete in our love.We will never be uncovered again We all want them to come back. Before we start to forget. But its just emotionally draining to keep hoping. You will tire of it, you can take only so much.
Nolan 93 Posted January 19, 2015 Posted January 19, 2015 Hey don't we all, I was dumped and I was a very good bf. I want her back, but she chose her ex. Who knows maybe we will find our way back to eachother in the future. But not hoping on it, and moving on.
dyna85 Posted January 19, 2015 Posted January 19, 2015 It's okay to feel this way but eventually you'll feel other emotions, like: why would I want someone who doesn't want me? & I deserve better than this person who could let me go and doesn't fear losing me forever. & how dare s/he hurt me like this. etc etc. Truth is, I think we've all wanted the person back at one point or another, but we need to whip ourselves into shape and get back to earth and recognize our worth. We deserve someone who will be there in good times & bad and not ditch us when the going gets rough. Someone who appreciates us like we appreciate them, flaws and all. That's true love. Is that not our aim? <3 3
EuTuBrute Posted January 19, 2015 Posted January 19, 2015 It's okay to feel this way but eventually you'll feel other emotions, like: why would I want someone who doesn't want me? & I deserve better than this person who could let me go and doesn't fear losing me forever. & how dare s/he hurt me like this. etc etc. Truth is, I think we've all wanted the person back at one point or another, but we need to whip ourselves into shape and get back to earth and recognize our worth. We deserve someone who will be there in good times & bad and not ditch us when the going gets rough. Someone who appreciates us like we appreciate them, flaws and all. That's true love. Is that not our aim? <3 This! When you think of your ex, this of this. It is hard but its the truth
blackcat777 Posted January 20, 2015 Posted January 20, 2015 But its just emotionally draining to keep hoping. You will tire of it, you can take only so much. This is so true. I didn't sleep for the first two months of my breakup. Then, finally, I was so tired, I started sleeping again, and that was that. It sucks to hear, but with time, the pain will lessen. You can't skip healing, but you can speed it up by staying NC and doing a bunch of awesome things for yourself. Keep busy. The periods of forgetting about her will stretch from minutes, to hours, to days. 1
Mif Posted January 20, 2015 Posted January 20, 2015 I know right. I want mine back. But not now. I want him back, but back how it was before he left me and before I lost my trust and regard for him. Nevermind, I'll find someone like you. 1
Author jake2495 Posted January 20, 2015 Author Posted January 20, 2015 She just text saying that she wants to be friends just that i need to tell her when im ready to move on. i dont think i ever will be so idk what to do now
Author jake2495 Posted January 20, 2015 Author Posted January 20, 2015 now shes texting me like nothing has changed.... i dont get it!
towardthefuture Posted January 20, 2015 Posted January 20, 2015 Say "Get lost." Then block her number.
Author jake2495 Posted January 20, 2015 Author Posted January 20, 2015 It all just seems to good to be true!
Marco Valerio Posted January 20, 2015 Posted January 20, 2015 You broke up just a few days ago, so she's in the stage where she's terrified of loosing you from her side (despite she's the one who decided to break up). It is not worth the time, do not answer her message. 1
bigtrouble Posted January 20, 2015 Posted January 20, 2015 (edited) She just text saying that she wants to be friends just that i need to tell her when im ready to move on. i dont think i ever will be so idk what to do now now shes texting me like nothing has changed.... i dont get it! I think I was able to read your previous threads like. You broke up... Ex sure 99% you will get back... You want her back... Now she texts you, just friends. She texts you like nothing happened. Make up your mind and go NC. If you want her back, settle for nothing less. or if you want to move on, NC all the way. Edited January 20, 2015 by bigtrouble 1
Chi townD Posted January 20, 2015 Posted January 20, 2015 Just ignore it, dude. I'm pretty sure that you don't want to be "just friends". I'm pretty sure you didn't want to break up in the first place. Why does she get to dictate what relationship you should have?
kendahke Posted January 20, 2015 Posted January 20, 2015 She just text saying that she wants to be friends just that i need to tell her when im ready to move on. i dont think i ever will be so idk what to do now Don't respond. Saying something to her is just keeping attached to her. Just block her.
Fox007d Posted January 21, 2015 Posted January 21, 2015 Bro I think from reading your post you were more emotionally invested than she was. You're probably hurting from the break while she has clearly moved on. Same thing happened to me a month ago. Trust me you have to ignore ignore ignore for your honour. short term pain yes but best thing you can do for yourself long term. Time will make you feel better. Cheers.
Fox007d Posted January 21, 2015 Posted January 21, 2015 It's okay to feel this way but eventually you'll feel other emotions, like: why would I want someone who doesn't want me? & I deserve better than this person who could let me go and doesn't fear losing me forever. & how dare s/he hurt me like this. etc etc. Truth is, I think we've all wanted the person back at one point or another, but we need to whip ourselves into shape and get back to earth and recognize our worth. We deserve someone who will be there in good times & bad and not ditch us when the going gets rough. Someone who appreciates us like we appreciate them, flaws and all. That's true love. Is that not our aim? <3 Wow this is one of the best things I've read since my breakup 3 weeks ago. It's so simple yet our brain and heart cannot comprehend quickly enough. Sigh.
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