sanne Posted March 30, 2005 Posted March 30, 2005 Sometimes I wonder where I'd be if I hadn't found these forums. The advice and knowledge i've gained will stay with my for a lifetime. Just gone through a breakup with the gf, i wanted to stay and work things out, she just didn't see it working out. She just came over, I wanted to give her everything she gave me back and some things she left here back to her. She got mad and flustered, said it was rude of me to give them back, i didn't argue or anything at all. I just said ok I'll keep them. She was expecting me to at least talk to her i know, but when I said that I didn't have anything else to talk about she left my apartment pretty bewildered. So after i finish eating i go back to my computer. I see that she is online, and as soon as i sign on she returns from being away expecting me to talk to her and explain why i was acting different. I just signed off, fought the temptation to IM her, and feel so good about myself right now. NC from here on out. I'm gonna do my best guys, wish me luck.
prayformydownfall Posted March 30, 2005 Posted March 30, 2005 well done mate i was in exactly the same position as u but chose to persue my ex until i made a fool of myself. I have now done exactly as u have, and she is tryin to contact me yet i refuse to email her back or call her back as she no longer is worthy of me... i'm glad ur on the path ur on mate... iv met an amazing girl and im happier than ever! keep ya head up!
tokyo Posted March 30, 2005 Posted March 30, 2005 I'm not sure if you learned that much if you refuse to talk to her. I think what people will tell you here is that communication is very important in a relationship. Sulking is not. I don't know your whole story, but I think you're using this NC to punish her.
Author sanne Posted March 30, 2005 Author Posted March 30, 2005 i'm just tired of being angry and worrying about things. I need a break from her and all of this. I need to not think about our relationship for one day. I need NC.
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