mawkij Posted January 19, 2015 Posted January 19, 2015 ok...I am 45 days after she broke up with me...decided to continue NC that I started 20 days ago...I have this feeling that I will take at least 3 years to get over her by 50 percent....to the extent I started googling "its been years and I cant get her out of my mind" and the surprise I found people posting that its been 7 yrs and 10 yrs and they are just the same .... I feel I ll be one of those...without exaggeration she didn't get out of my mind for a second during 45 days....when am talking with someone at work or sth am thinking of her back in my mind...I cant concentrate in any other thing.....and my worst feeling is when I have to concentrate on sth and put it beside her in my mind...
Marco Valerio Posted January 19, 2015 Posted January 19, 2015 You will do it, be patient. It will take you less than you think, but don't give yourself a timeframe to do it. It will take as long as you need. Cheer up friend. 1
erklat Posted January 20, 2015 Posted January 20, 2015 It took me roughly 11 months to become stable and functional on daily basis. You will arrive there, be patien . I remember daily. But gut wrenching pain is gone.
CarrieT Posted January 20, 2015 Posted January 20, 2015 Everyone and every relationship is different. The ending of the relationship that brought me to LS in 2008 took almost as long as the relationship itself (about two years). But my five-year marriage took me less than six months to get over. 1
Author mawkij Posted January 22, 2015 Author Posted January 22, 2015 thank you everybody ...I just wanted to make sure it wont last forever the same pain everyday....cuz its almost 50 days and its the same pain everyday...the same ups and down ... suddenly I feel good...5 minutes or sth am in deep sadness for an hour or two ....then am ok....then am crying....**** I cant livelike that for the rest of my life
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