Akahiba_19 Posted January 19, 2015 Posted January 19, 2015 I have been dating this girl for a couple of months. In a way, she was a godsend because my last relationship ended in heartbreak and I was single for awhile. She is very sweet, smart and successful, mentally she would be a great girlfriend. But the issue is with her physical attributes. She is not thin (what I usually go for) but she isn't a big girl either, average build. Also, she is plain. She is cute but not beautiful and she always dresses kinda... dowdy(a lot of flannel). Because of these things, I have little urge to take her to bed (part of me thinks she may be a virgin). I know that sex is not everything, but it is important to almost any relationship eventually. Also I am bothered by the fact that she is hesitant to tell anyone about me. She has mentioned me to friends and one of her brothers but doesn't want to tell her parents. My family knows about her (partly because they like to ask about my love life). I can excuse this, though it does hurt a little. I feel selfish because I don't want to let her go and be alone again but at the same time, I've already started looking elsewhere. What should I do?
eye of the storm Posted January 19, 2015 Posted January 19, 2015 I've already started looking elsewhere Look elsewhere. Let her go. You do not want her physically. You are already looking to replace her. Let her go. 1
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