brokenknight Posted January 19, 2015 Posted January 19, 2015 I need to be in my ex's city (200 mi away) for other reasons for one overnight stay. We are currently a little past 2 wks full NC. She broke it off with me saying she couldn't do distance. I still want her back right now, although those feelings keep mixing with never talking because of my pride that she broke it off so she should talk to me first. But I'm willing to break it this once. I know chances of us getting back together aren't likely, but at least I would get some other closure possibly other than a silent 10 minute conversation. What should I do?
dumbass2 Posted January 19, 2015 Posted January 19, 2015 She told you she couldn't do it because of the distance. What has changed? If it hasn't or it isn't any time soon, then you should respect what she told you and move forward. I can't see how contacting her is going to do either one of you any good.
sober and dry Posted January 19, 2015 Posted January 19, 2015 As it was already been said all over this forum, closure don't come from anyone else except from you. So, as you can't get closure from her, what else do you want from her?
David87 Posted January 19, 2015 Posted January 19, 2015 It's over, walk away with your head held high. Don't contact your ex.
marcelo.santos Posted January 19, 2015 Posted January 19, 2015 Resist and dont contact your ex! If there is any chance for both of you, you may destroy it by contacting her so prematurely. If there is no chance, contacting her will put you on day zero again. Move on! Its hard but it will not kill you.
Mif Posted January 20, 2015 Posted January 20, 2015 I broke NC with my ex to ask him to look after my cat while i was away. During That time he felt free to just text me non stop which made me feel terrible. It really set me back. Going NC the second time was even harder. Please try to not contact her. Write everything you would say to her to us instead.
Hija77 Posted January 20, 2015 Posted January 20, 2015 I would take the 2 weeks of NC you have, and run with them. Don't get in touch with her. There is no such thing as closure!! :-( You're in a lot of pain already. Don't torture yourself. 2 weeks is a good start!!! Keep it moving. Good luck!
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