summerlove Posted March 30, 2005 Posted March 30, 2005 How do I stop thinking about the ex. being out with another girl? and when I think of this..... how do I make myself feel loved and not hurt and feeling like something was wrong with me?
DandyBo Posted March 30, 2005 Posted March 30, 2005 You guys broke up right? For what reason of you breaking up when you still have feelings for him? Ok, that's the past, let's not think about it. Now he's with another girl, why do you still think of him? Don't bother to think about things that'll bring you down and making you feel small. Breathe in and breathe out, watch the beautiful sky and wait for another guy.. Hey, there's plenty of fish in the sea which are better than what you've caught before!
Butterflye Posted March 30, 2005 Posted March 30, 2005 EVERYONE find it hard to top thinking about ex's. The only piece of advice I can say though, is...remember that you ARE a wonderful person. You know this deep down. You know how great you are, all you have to offer, how truly amazing you are. You do not need him to re-assert that. In fact, we do not need ANYONE to tell us this, because if we all purely based our thoughts on ourself on what other's think of us, I think we would all be very depressed people. In regards to him being with another girl, this is difficult, but I do not know the circumstances. If he left u for her, he's a jerk! Right from the start and you really need to think of him this way from now on!!! If he did not leave you for her though, he's trying to move on. There is sadly nothing you can do about this. However, she can never match you!! No one can, everyone is unique and whatever he has with her, you ca honestly know, can never be the same as what he had with you. You need to remember yourself before you even met him...do not let him take your spark away!!!
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