Heatemyheart89 Posted January 19, 2015 Posted January 19, 2015 I met my boyfriend at college when I was 16.We liked each other, but nothing came of it .I added him on facebook 6 months ago and to cut a long story short we are now together .The thing is , things are bad . He has dropped several bombshells. He is an ex drug addict who had a 6 month psychosis when he went cold turkey for one . Since meeting me he has fixed up a lot. When we were out someone he knew commented on how he was doing so well since me . He is slack with contact , never rings me and mostly excludes me from his life (friends etc). I feel undervalued. I really care for him but I'm getting nothing from the relationship . I think /thought I could cope with the drugs thing , but he has started to not be great as a boyfriend. I am scared he will go down hill if /when I dump him.Any advice ?
bigtrouble Posted January 19, 2015 Posted January 19, 2015 The relationship seems to start taking its toll on you. If you find it toxic you may need to let go. You have made up your mind and only seek encouragement. If you break it off, it would be best for both of you. He must need to continue working on himself to improve. On the other hand you feel you are not getting much from the relationship. Its all give no take. You must find the courage within yourself to let go. It will be difficult but do remember if its done, you are no longer responsible for him.
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