Grevensteiner Posted January 18, 2015 Posted January 18, 2015 We're together for 7 months. Lately she's been telling me she loves me etc etc, but about 2 weeks ago she moved out of her parents' house and moved into her good friend's house. I've been writing about it on this forum, and someone told me it's a matter of time until something happens. I thought it's not true, until like 3 hours ago When she told me she ****ed him when she was drunk. And she told me this after we've been hugging, kissing, holding hands, talking, everything like usually, at her house. What the **** should I do? It was my first relationship, first girlfriend, ****.
Ebelskiver Posted January 18, 2015 Posted January 18, 2015 First off, I'm so sorry. That really blows. Since this is yoiur first gf and first relationship....there is NO reason to stick around and start a pattern of putting up with crap you shouldn't. If you had a family, if you were older.....maybe then it would be wise to consider trying to work it out. But not now. Tell her you're done and that you don't want to speak to her or see her again. IMMEDIATELY block her from all your social media sites and block her on your phone. Maintain no contact until you have truly moved on....usually about a year. Really don't plan on ever speaking to her again. Don't stalk her FB, don't talk to her friends about her, don't drive my palces you know that she will be. All those things do is make you think of her and slow down the process of getting over her. It will hurt, but in a couple of months you will be feeling much better. Keep yourself busy, busy, busy. Work, volunteer, hang out with friends. The less you are alone with your thoughts the better. Finally, this is all on her. It has nothing to do with you or your sexual performance. She just got drunk and made a poor decision. Good luck. 2
preraph Posted January 18, 2015 Posted January 18, 2015 Sounds like now that she's out from under her parents' house, she's getting her first taste of freedom, and she apparently isn't going to let a bf slow her down. Everyone needs to go through it before trying to settle down or commit, so all I can do is say I'm sorry you're getting hurt in this. Using liquor is no excuse. If it makes you do things you wouldn't otherwise do, then you stop using liquor. 1
LostOnes05 Posted January 18, 2015 Posted January 18, 2015 Dump her immediately. She is laughing, kissing, and hugging you after having sex with some other dude...nah. She gotta go. It's gonna hurt, but tell her that you wish her and her new boyfriend luck...they'll need it. As everyone else said, being drunk is not an excuse. Why is she getting drunk with another guy when you're not there? She lacks respect for you and the relationship you guys HAD. Don't listen to her sobs or pleads. She will do it again. 2
Nina1 Posted January 18, 2015 Posted January 18, 2015 Sorry to say that but your girlfriend is a bitch!! I'm a girl and alcohol in not an excuse, she cheated on you because she wanted to, and the fact that she is laughing,kissing,hugging you before telling you she cheated, clearly shows that she doesn't care about what u feel.it shows that she doesn't consider that as a big mistake and probably never will, it shows that she thinks you can forgive her and trust her again. But you know what? it's impossible, the girl is living with her friend aka the guy she ****ed, so she is gonna do it again. You have to be strong and break up with her now, she didn't respect you so she doesn't need your love. 1
Satu Posted January 19, 2015 Posted January 19, 2015 What the **** should I do? It was my first relationship, first girlfriend, ****. I would recommend this as the best course of action for you. Cut all contact with her and find yourself another girlfriend. Don't even bother thinking about her much. Go and have some fun. 1
Gaeta Posted January 19, 2015 Posted January 19, 2015 OH ! I am so so sorry. The only thing to do is to break up. Being drunk is not an excuse. You are far away, she cannot be trusted, this relationship is over. Yes it's your first relationship, we all had a first relationship, they are rarely meant to last. 1
No Limit Posted January 19, 2015 Posted January 19, 2015 Dump her and wait for a responsible girl to come along. 1
KimmyBee Posted January 19, 2015 Posted January 19, 2015 You really need to break up with her. She will, most definitely, do it again... even more so that they are living together. I don't know why people use alcohol as an excuse. I've been very drunk and have never not known what I was doing. I think she is lying and wanted it. 2
Redhead14 Posted January 19, 2015 Posted January 19, 2015 We're together for 7 months. Lately she's been telling me she loves me etc etc, but about 2 weeks ago she moved out of her parents' house and moved into her good friend's house. I've been writing about it on this forum, and someone told me it's a matter of time until something happens. I thought it's not true, until like 3 hours ago When she told me she ****ed him when she was drunk. And she told me this after we've been hugging, kissing, holding hands, talking, everything like usually, at her house. What the **** should I do? It was my first relationship, first girlfriend, ****. You should move on.
rocketman122 Posted January 19, 2015 Posted January 19, 2015 Damn buddy. Sorry to hear.I feel for you. Put some cyanode in her drink
kendahke Posted January 19, 2015 Posted January 19, 2015 We're together for 7 months. Lately she's been telling me she loves me etc etc, but about 2 weeks ago she moved out of her parents' house and moved into her good friend's house. I've been writing about it on this forum, and someone told me it's a matter of time until something happens. I thought it's not true, until like 3 hours ago When she told me she ****ed him when she was drunk. And she told me this after we've been hugging, kissing, holding hands, talking, everything like usually, at her house. What the **** should I do? It was my first relationship, first girlfriend, ****. They're sleeping in the same bed. Of course they're screwing. I seriously doubt it was one time and drunk at that. And wow, is she cunning and calculating--who in their right mind cheats? Then tells their partner while sharing intimacies? Cruel chick you got there. Sorry this happened to you. What you should do is go ghost. Block all contact with her. Excise her out of your life and your social media. Go get a STD test from your doctor to make sure you're clean. 1
Author Grevensteiner Posted January 19, 2015 Author Posted January 19, 2015 False alarm, shes been acting and telling me all this to test if i leave her...I now think she has some serious psychological problems with herself...Uh. Thanks for all your posts, the whole situation became quite pathetic. What the heck happened to normal young girls these days? 1
MidwestUSA Posted January 19, 2015 Posted January 19, 2015 False alarm, shes been acting and telling me all this to test if i leave her...I now think she has some serious psychological problems with herself...Uh. Thanks for all your posts, the whole situation became quite pathetic. What the heck happened to normal young girls these days? You just haven't found one yet. They're out there; dump this one and keep looking. Yea, serious issues is putting it mildly. You'll pass her 'test' as the door hits her in the butt.
Gaeta Posted January 19, 2015 Posted January 19, 2015 False alarm, shes been acting and telling me all this to test if i leave her...I now think she has some serious psychological problems with herself...Uh. Thanks for all your posts, the whole situation became quite pathetic. What the heck happened to normal young girls these days? I would not believe her. Cheating on me = I dump you Pretending cheating on me to get a reaction = I dump you 4
LostOnes05 Posted January 19, 2015 Posted January 19, 2015 False alarm my ass...unless she is doing her senior thesis on how to ruin relationships for her psych major she cheated and is continuing to lie to you. I'd dump her ass and then say ohh I was just testing you. She how she likes that one... 2
rocketman122 Posted January 19, 2015 Posted January 19, 2015 (edited) False alarm, shes been acting and telling me all this to test if i leave her...I now think she has some serious psychological problems with herself...Uh. Thanks for all your posts, the whole situation became quite pathetic. What the heck happened to normal young girls these days? False alarm my ass...unless she is doing her senior thesis on how to ruin relationships for her psych major she cheated and is continuing to lie to you. I'd dump her ass and then say ohh I was just testing you. She how she likes that one... false alarm..haha Bull**** false alarm. dude she got the kielbasa from another guy. walk away. Edited January 19, 2015 by a LoveShack.org Moderator Inappropriate content redacted 1
kendahke Posted January 19, 2015 Posted January 19, 2015 False alarm, shes been acting and telling me all this to test if i leave her...I now think she has some serious psychological problems with herself...Uh. Thanks for all your posts, the whole situation became quite pathetic. What the heck happened to normal young girls these days? Dang... AND she does this kind of manipulative, game playing mess.
Mrin Posted January 19, 2015 Posted January 19, 2015 False alarm? No way in hell. She's gaslighting you. Break up with via text or better yet, Twitter. Use Twitter speak too. "Hey girlfriend, u a ho or crazy or both. SMH Buh-bye GFU or betta yet GFUR" 2
rocketman122 Posted January 19, 2015 Posted January 19, 2015 send her a picture of you with another girl naked in bed hugging then send it and say, "sweetheart I was just testing you! but really, I was testing her" hahaha 1
Ebelskiver Posted January 19, 2015 Posted January 19, 2015 No way!!! She saw your reaction and then she back pedaled. Even on the almost impossible chance that she's telling you the truth, you still nee to break up with her. No one who loves you is going to tell you they slept with someone else.....they would know that would hurt you! She is crazy. Leave her.
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