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Should I be asking for her to give us another chance when shes the one deleting text?


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We've been dating for 8months now. Everything was fine 2 months ago but that's when my jealousy and insecurities started because I knew her ex was getting out of jail. He'd been locked up for a year. she had not gone to visit him in jail or written him either, but for some reason I started loosing it when the time for him to get out came close. And started questioning her about all kinds of stuff all the time. Well needless to say the time kept getting closer and closer and I kept getting worse. Well since he's been out he will text her all the time and she tries to avoid him but the fact that they have kids together kind of limits that. Also the fact that she has to get supervised visitation by her mother and he's there bc his visitation is also supervised bc of an addiction issue. But things have gotten to the point to where she has deleted text messages and that was today and yesterday. And I brought it up and told her that I was sorry if my jealousy and insecurity had pushed her away but to please not throw us away. Am I a naive pushover? Any advice?

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Am I a naive pushover? Any advice?

 

No, your an insecure, self-sabotaging person. My advice is to let this relationship go and work on not being jealous so that your next relationship won't have the same fate.

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This is exactly where you shouldn't be, given your issues.

 

You will be buffeted by feelings that you can't handle.

 

Jealousy is a serious problem that can't be solved by good intentions and promises.

 

Get some therapy, or it will be a long-term blight on all your relationships.

 

Good luck.

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