alphamale Posted January 18, 2015 Posted January 18, 2015 i'll be turning 50 in march. i'm free of alcohol and cigarettes now and feel the best i have in years. i am ready to start dating again. i know what i'm looking for, especially after spilling my seed in a number of women. i think i'm ready for marriage again. i don't want to grow old by myself. there should be plenty of single women in the 40 to 50 year old bracket that want to date the new and improved alphamale. 9
CarrieT Posted January 18, 2015 Posted January 18, 2015 You will do just fine, AM... Lots of us got re-started in our 50s! It is much easier when you know what you want, know yourself better, and aren't struggling to just figure out life! 2
Satu Posted January 18, 2015 Posted January 18, 2015 My brother got married in his mid fifties to a lovely woman, and they are very happy seven years on. Good luck!
Pyro Posted January 19, 2015 Posted January 19, 2015 While the internet may not be ideal for many, but when looking for a mate it sure has opened up the possibilities tri-fold. Best of luck to you.
quankanne Posted January 19, 2015 Posted January 19, 2015 well ... the best part about being our age and looking for new relationships is that our bullshxt detectors are fine-tuned, and we're not stuck wasting time on something we suspect is wrong. good to see you back, amigo ... and very proud of you for whipping your vices in line
whichwayisup Posted January 19, 2015 Posted January 19, 2015 i'll be turning 50 in march. i'm free of alcohol and cigarettes now and feel the best i have in years. i am ready to start dating again. i know what i'm looking for, especially after spilling my seed in a number of women. i think i'm ready for marriage again. i don't want to grow old by myself. there should be plenty of single women in the 40 to 50 year old bracket that want to date the new and improved alphamale. Jesus, I remember when you turned 40! Good luck, though you won't need it. You have humour and your savvyness (savviness? IS that a real word...), and new outlook on life. 2
Author alphamale Posted January 19, 2015 Author Posted January 19, 2015 Jesus, I remember when you turned 40! :lmao: 1
MidwestUSA Posted January 19, 2015 Posted January 19, 2015 53 now here, and married again at 50. To a sarcastic, funny guy. You'll be just fine. You know exactly what you want now, right?
preraph Posted January 19, 2015 Posted January 19, 2015 You will find a huge field of women out there suitable to you since you, apparently alone amongst many, are looking to date age appropriately. You will find wonderful women with great qualities, and these days 50 is the new 30 anyway lookswise. Women in the 40 and above range are often reaching a new sexual peak as well -- and quite frankly, if they don't have a mate, they find themselves "all dressed up and nowhere to go" frequently. So this should be a very good time for you. Ask any friends and coworkers to fix you up, get out there and do activities, and then do OLD because this age group of women are largely overlooked out there and you should be able to be quite choosy within this age range to find a nice one. Good luck.
carhill Posted January 19, 2015 Posted January 19, 2015 i'll be turning 50 in march. i'm free of alcohol and cigarettes now and feel the best i have in years. Congrats - that's quite a lifestyle change. i am ready to start dating again. i know what i'm looking for, especially after spilling my seed in a number of women. IMO, feeling 'ready' is most of the battle for a man, especially one of our generation who puts himself out there to approach women. i think i'm ready for marriage again. i don't want to grow old by myself. If your target audience is contemporaries, expect to be mobbed there should be plenty of single women in the 40 to 50 year old bracket that want to date the new and improved alphamale. Indeed.
oldshirt Posted January 19, 2015 Posted January 19, 2015 I am 50 also and although I am not currently on the dating market, the advice I can offer is please don't use the term "spilling seed into..." In any of your communications with women LOL 5
beach Posted January 19, 2015 Posted January 19, 2015 It's good you are open to dating. Go gently - you are just learning to take care of yourself now - which is so great! I just caution you to practice good balance in any relationship so not to mess up your recovery by handing anyone or anything too much of your power. 1
M_Theory Posted January 19, 2015 Posted January 19, 2015 i'll be turning 50 in march. i'm free of alcohol and cigarettes now and feel the best i have in years. i am ready to start dating again. i know what i'm looking for, especially after spilling my seed in a number of women. i think i'm ready for marriage again. i don't want to grow old by myself. there should be plenty of single women in the 40 to 50 year old bracket that want to date the new and improved alphamale. I'll be 50 in a few years as well. But Im not new or improved. I've been fine the way I am. But I guarantee women will flock to a guy that has beaten addiction or demons more so than a guy that never had those problems to begin with. Women seem to gravitate towards people that "beat" this or that, and give no credit towards someone that was strong enough to never stumble in the first place.
2.50 a gallon Posted January 20, 2015 Posted January 20, 2015 When my marriage failed after 6 months at age 35, I swore I would never fall in love again. I had a great sex life, when at age 49, I fell in love and we have been together for over 19 years. It has been great, fantastic gal, we are still very much in love. Though short, skinny, and looking my age, complete with a white beard, on average, about once a year some 40 something has tried to get me to cheat. And I am not looking. I kid you not. A few years back it was a great looking English gal who kept offering to cook me Bangers, with a wink and always had some new dirty joke to tell me. Two years ago, while waiting to check out in a grocery store, I got in a conversation with two 20 somethings buying a 24 pack of beer who straight out asked me if I wanted to come over that night for a 3 some. Last summer it was a hot 35 year old, I am almost twice her age that had the hots for me. What I am trying to say, is that if you like variety, at age 60 plus, you will still have lots of chances.
Robert Z Posted January 20, 2015 Posted January 20, 2015 i think i'm ready for marriage again. i don't want to grow old by myself. Good luck! I have to admit that sitting here thinking about a conventional marriage makes me cringe. But it seems that you've been on your own for a long time?
amaysngrace Posted January 20, 2015 Posted January 20, 2015 Don't look for love. Just say hello to women and see if you get a vibe. If you feel it in your heart and pants you're good to go. 1
2.50 a gallon Posted January 20, 2015 Posted January 20, 2015 More thoughts. Almost every woman that I dated from 35 on, like myself had some sort of baggage. However not all baggage is bad! There are some whom have lived thru the BS and are now looking for a good man to love and respect them. My lady is 8 years younger than myself. A 60 plus grandma of a 20 year old. Every night she spends a good half hour just cleaning her face. This has resulted in her still having the face of a 40 something. She still has an hour glass figure, closely watches her weight, not a diet freak, just cuts back on her eating, a flat stomach and great legs. Total eye candy. When she became available I had lots of competition. There were a good dozen guys who like myself were lusting after her. I caught my Ex cheating and came to the conclusion I would never be able to trust a woman again. After my divorce I was so scared of being hurt again, that at the first signs of love, I would bolt and run. With my lady, I never had that choice. Second date, first kiss, and it was already too late. I had to learn to trust again, hard to do with a hot looking gal who works in retail and are constantly being hit on. It took me awhile to slowly learn to trust again. I now trust her completely. She too has been thru the BS, and once she fell in love with a man who treated her with resect and love, she was mine. 2
Kamille Posted January 27, 2015 Posted January 27, 2015 While the internet may not be ideal for many, but when looking for a mate it sure has opened up the possibilities tri-fold. Best of luck to you. Pyro being the expert on using the internet to find a soul mate and all. Glad to hear about your sobriety and happy to see you back alphamale! 2
Author alphamale Posted January 27, 2015 Author Posted January 27, 2015 Glad to hear about your sobriety and happy to see you back alphamale! thanx kamille
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