Beto81 Posted January 18, 2015 Posted January 18, 2015 I started a relationship with a close friend, who I'm now in love with. And it's gotten a bit complicated. I will try to keep it simple. I'm a recovering addict and I met her bc me and her husband used together. Well they broke up and a couple months after that he got arrested for drug charges and got put away for a year. They have three young children together whom I also love. While he was in jail her and I were taking care of the children and we were a happy lil family til one day we overslept and one of the kids managed to get the window open of the second story bedroom and started throwing toys out. Well the neighbor called the cops and to make a long story short DSS got called and the kids got taken into custody. No drugs or alcohol were involved. Well her mother is a nutcase the poor girl, she gets bad acne when it's that time of the month and she told me that one time she mentioned to her mother around that time that she looked like the ppl that do meth and pick at their face. Now just so no one starts thinking here I'm an ex opiate addict. Well her mother is single and lonely and crazy. And she has been trying to get the kids is the assumption we came to. Bc she went to DSS and told them that her daughter was on meth. Anyways she got her way bc she conspired with him in jail and got him to get DSS to give her the kids when he got out as long as he was living there. Which was his way of getting to his wife because he was never a good father, I'm not saying that he doesn't love his kids. But anyways He is now out of jail and at her mothers house and uses the fact that the kids are their with him to talk to her. And she has to go there and get supervised visitation with her mom to see the kids. Well me being a recovering addict I haven't been in touch with my feelings in a while and these feelings of love and jealousy that I have are sometimes overwhelming and I'm trying not to push her away. Any words of advice??
toscaroscura Posted January 18, 2015 Posted January 18, 2015 I really don't think you have a future with her until her business with her husband is settled. Like it or not, their separation is fresh and it sounds like they aren't completely finished. As far as the mess with her mom and drugs and visitation, I'm not really knowledgeable about that stuff.
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