Satu Posted January 18, 2015 Posted January 18, 2015 Do you believe in Santa? The Tooth Fairy? This man? 3
Winterina Posted January 18, 2015 Posted January 18, 2015 I normally try and say something useful for a person, but the best thing that I can tell you right now is that you are pissing me off. Read your first thread about this. Everyone already told you that you are being used and because you are only 24 and not very aware of things, not even for a 24 yr old apparently. What is it that you want to hear that is different now? 2
hoping2heal Posted January 18, 2015 Posted January 18, 2015 Dear Glitter, A major life lesson: if a man has to treat you like you are the Porno mag he is hiding underneath his bed, then no, he is not serious about you and doesn't care for you much beyond being a wonderful garage to park his limo inside of. I mean, how do you NOT get insulted that he screws you at his second home and then drops you off after? I don't know what's going on these days but some of the romantic stories I read on here my word... 3
spiderowl Posted January 18, 2015 Posted January 18, 2015 He is living with another woman and you can't call him at home. You are having to alter your behaviour to help him keep his secret. You are the other woman at the moment, regardless of his home circumstances. Let him figure out the money situation and move out before wasting time on him. I'm sorry, because I know you love him but love blinds us to seeing the facts. 1
Deidre Posted January 18, 2015 Posted January 18, 2015 if a man has to treat you like you are the Porno mag he is hiding underneath his bed, then no, he is not serious about you and doesn't care for you much beyond being a wonderful garage to park his limo inside of. wowzers, I love this! I must use it if the need arises. lol Very true, indeed. 1
Gaeta Posted January 18, 2015 Posted January 18, 2015 So last night we went for drinks and then back to his house that he owns. WAIT! He owns 2 houses and one of them is empty!!! Why the heck doesn't he move into that empty house???? I read your answer about him wanting his money from this gf before moving out. It's the BIGGEST collection of BS I have EVER HEARD. Whether he lives there or not he will get his money back, at least he is entitled to by law!! i decided to ask him some serious questions that i have had on my mind latley. Such as do i make you happy? Are you sure you are in love with me? He answered yes to both of the questions. I also asked him if he ever saw it just being "him and i" and he also replied yes. Where did those questions get you? Nowhere! You need to ask REAL questions like!!:: * Why isn't the house for sale?
KatZee Posted January 18, 2015 Posted January 18, 2015 yes he is. he said he cant move out till he gets his money straight becaue he dosent want to loose everything he has put into the house but they dont kiss or touch he says. But he says he has to be home at night to keep peace IE: This woman, is NOT his ex. This woman has no clue you exist. This woman still believes that this man is her boyfriend/husband whatever. If she was a legit ex he wouldn't care about "keeping peace." What peace is there to keep? They wouldn't be together at all, no reason to meddle in each others lives at all. Obviously this woman is upset when he is not home with her. I'm really confused. He has his own house free and clear. It's been paid off. So WHY can't he move out? His excuses make no sense and are not logical. Whether he leaves his live in partner NOW, tomorrow, next week, next month, a year from now, he WILL lose what he put into the house. That's the end result that is inevitable. What exactly is he saving money for? To pay mortgage on a house that is completely paid off? You guys don't even spend nights together. You go out, he lies to his gf/wife about where he is, he has sex with you and then you both go your separate ways. If you can't see that this guy is using you and playing you 100% I don't know what to tell you. This guy is just stuffing wool in your eyeballs. He gets away with it because you're 24! You're young. You're naive. You haven't yet seen the world as ugly as it can be. You're at that age where you believe love is a fantasy land with rainbows and glitter and where all excuses are honest. This guy is going to be a HUGE lesson for you. You can learn it now, or you can learn it later. I'd suggest learning now. Stay with him any longer and you're going to be hurt. BIG TIME. 1
KatZee Posted January 18, 2015 Posted January 18, 2015 I actually just read your last update. There is no moving forward in this situation. You're a side piece, that's it. This guy is not your boyfriend. You can't call him that. You're just something young and exciting to play with because his marriage has gotten stale. I guarantee you are not the first, and you will not be the last. He seems to be an expert manipulator, liar, and game player. I also wouldn't be surprised if his wife actually DID know about you. Maybe not about you personally, but women are not morons. Especially women who have been married or with their men for many years and who live together. Also, he doesn't love you. 1
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