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She considers him her best friend

 

she thinks about him as a real friend

 

you guys will never understand how we can feel this way toward a guy

 

she really loves or likes him as a friend

 

 

But males don't understand that

 

they either think of us as sex or not!

 

 

But to be realistic

 

Stop taking money from your friends

 

this is not healthy

 

Why not taking money from the university or taking students loans? or try to get a job

 

when you take money from people, it changes everything..

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Break contact with him because he obviously cannot handle being your friend.

 

You don't owe him anything. It is not your responsibility to help him find someone. He needs to go look on his own.

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She considers him her best friend

 

she thinks about him as a real friend

 

you guys will never understand how we can feel this way toward a guy

 

she really loves or likes him as a friend

 

 

But males don't understand that

 

they either think of us as sex or not!

 

 

But to be realistic

 

Stop taking money from your friends

 

this is not healthy

 

Why not taking money from the university or taking students loans? or try to get a job

 

when you take money from people, it changes everything..

 

 

I wish people would understand that. Why do I have to cut off my friendship with my bestfriend? He is handling my new relationship in his own way and doesnt say anything. I do agree. I will stop borrowing money from him . I just have been applying everywhere and Havent gotten hired and sometimes I cant get to school or eat . Yeah I know it's bad . I'll try and figure things out without him. I am just left without a choice sometimes.

 

Again. I'm not cutting off my friendship because he is my best friend. I'm not using him. If I wanted to use him I EASILY could. I could empty out his bank account, have him do me favors, everything but I dont because he is a my friend and I am not that kind of person. Whats the problem ? Geez

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Sounds like your current boyfriend doesn't care if you starve or can't get to school. A prince of a guy!

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