newby Posted March 29, 2005 Posted March 29, 2005 how can men have sex without getting emotionally involved? or rather how can they have sex if they are not emotionally involved consistently for a long period of time? is this all men?
EC Posted March 29, 2005 Posted March 29, 2005 Because they don't think with anything but their PENIS!
Merin Posted March 29, 2005 Posted March 29, 2005 First I'll say I don't think ALL Men are like that.. BUT for the ones who are.. they are able to seperate sex from emotions. Sex being Primal NOT emotional for them..
alphamale Posted March 29, 2005 Posted March 29, 2005 Originally posted by newby how can men have sex without getting emotionally involved? easy NEWBY. A man finds a woman who is into him but he just wants her for sex. Then he takes her out and gets her drunk. Then they go to her home and they take off their clothes and he inserts his erect penis into her and pumps away. Then he dresses and goes home. Simple.
Bubbles Posted March 29, 2005 Posted March 29, 2005 Geez Alpha.......sopunds like the "woman" could also be a blow-up doll. A receptical. bubbles
tiki Posted March 29, 2005 Posted March 29, 2005 No, it's not all men. And women do it too. The only thing that matters is YOUR standards. If someone doesn't meet your standards, we have one word for that here at LoveShack. NEXT! There are men out there that prefer commited intimacy. Don't settle for less.
alphamale Posted March 29, 2005 Posted March 29, 2005 Originally posted by Bubbles Geez Alpha.......sopunds like the "woman" could also be a blow-up doll. A receptical. bubbles NEWBY wanted to know how a man can have casual sex w/o emotional involvement. I have told her how BUBBLEZ. Originally posted by tiki There are men out there that prefer commited intimacy. yes TIKI but most of them are dudes who get little or no play.
Bubbles Posted March 29, 2005 Posted March 29, 2005 alphamale, That was a very "honest" statement then..........you have me blushing behind my computer screen. bubbles
tiki Posted March 29, 2005 Posted March 29, 2005 Originally posted by alphamale yes TIKI but most of them are dudes who get little or no play. Oh. That's my husband.
alphamale Posted March 29, 2005 Posted March 29, 2005 Originally posted by tiki Oh. That's my husband. oh yeah, the 14 second man
Bubbles Posted March 29, 2005 Posted March 29, 2005 alphamale, That's bubbles with an "S" please.... So.....how's it going at your new workplace filled to the brim with eligible ladies just waiting for you to ask them out?
alphamale Posted March 29, 2005 Posted March 29, 2005 Originally posted by Bubbles alphamale, That's bubbles with an "S" please.... So.....how's it going at your new workplace filled to the brim with eligible ladies just waiting for you to ask them out? sorry BUBBLES. it is going good but i am meeting enuf women outside of work at singles events to keep me busy. I'll keep the women here at work as a standby just in case the other scene drys up. You are cute BUBBLES, u should come to Detroit to visit someday. Just come down the 401 a coupla hundred miles. Oh wait, my ex-wife was from Toronto
Bubbles Posted March 29, 2005 Posted March 29, 2005 Why thank you big boy! but driving to Detroit would be a stretch for me although I do have family in the U.S. I rarely visit. You're a D-O-double G....you know that right? bubbles
Linlin Posted March 29, 2005 Posted March 29, 2005 Originally posted by tiki No, it's not all men. And women do it too. Yes we women do it to. It depends on your age, what has happened in your life, expectations, etc. Sometimes we just all need a little "love."
blind_otter Posted March 29, 2005 Posted March 29, 2005 I have a problem with this. I have a problem getting emotionally involved -- if I get too emotionally involved with the person I have sex with I just push them away and stop hanging out with them. I make up excuses in my head for why we can't be involved or even make a go at it. I then torture them by being completely casual about the whole affair. I'd rather do this, than risk emotional involvement, and I am afraid of committment. I would venture to guess that a lot of men are like that, too.
gd1039 Posted March 29, 2005 Posted March 29, 2005 Originally posted by tiki There are men out there that prefer commited intimacy. Originally posted by alphamale ... but most of them are dudes who get little or no play. It seems obvious to me that the two options are: (Committed Intimacy) Getting a lot from 1 person vs (Non-committed Intimacy) getting a little from lots of people. Sure, while single the CI person doesn't get any, but in the long run they get more.
justsomeguy Posted March 29, 2005 Posted March 29, 2005 I would never have sex without some emotional connection. I don't like it when a girl gets physical in any way until I get to know them. Because of this though I think I give girls the impression that I'm not interested in them in that way.
Bubbles Posted March 29, 2005 Posted March 29, 2005 So are you telling us that you have never had a one night stand (because you wanted it that way)? bubbles
tyreas Posted March 30, 2005 Posted March 30, 2005 Sex, yes please. Men aren't emotional thats all there is to it.........................or at least thats what we want you to think. I have had 2 one night stands, and I can't say I wouldn't do it all over again if I had the chance. The only thing that scares me about those are STD's. As for the 14 second man. LOL I have a story but I shall not share. DOH I just shared that I had a story LOL I hadn't had sex in almost a year and even then it was just my second time. Well lets just say I missed on the first try and I was waiting for a recoil after that. Then she laughed at me LMAO. I didn't think it could get any smaller.
newby Posted March 31, 2005 Posted March 31, 2005 tyreas, thats very honest of you! thankyou everybody for the replies, however i wasnt asking how men can have one night stands, i think even i could do that! i was asking how they can have sex consistently over a long period of time with one person who they do not have any feelings for? alpha, perhaps you are best equipped to answer this one.
alphamale Posted March 31, 2005 Posted March 31, 2005 Originally posted by newby i was asking how they can have sex consistently over a long period of time with one person who they do not have any feelings for? alpha, perhaps you are best equipped to answer this one. because men can very easily seperate sex and their emotions. with the proper woman who we have no feeling for we can easily have sex with her forever if she is willing. sex with a woman we love and care for is mind blowing but we can just as easily have sex just for the sake of sex with someone we don't love. women have a harder time seperating the two aspects of sex and love.
Bubbles Posted March 31, 2005 Posted March 31, 2005 We have a harder time because society has pounded it into our heads that "if a woman has 'casual sex' then she MUST be a slut, only a slut would act that way" We ladies don't want to be labelled a sluts! Sad isn't it? It's no wonder we're so bitchy! bubbles
alphamale Posted March 31, 2005 Posted March 31, 2005 Originally posted by Bubbles We have a harder time because society has pounded it into our heads that "if a woman has 'casual sex' then she MUST be a slut, only a slut would act that way" Incorrect BUBBLES. The female brain is wired in a much different way than the male brain. Everything in the female brain is tied to emotions and feelings and the train of thought is usually non-linear due to this. It may have a little to do with society but mostly it is biological.
Bubbles Posted March 31, 2005 Posted March 31, 2005 Well then I have spent far too much time listening to society..............!!! Dammitt!!!! and all this time I could have been out having fun!!! Get the pull out couch ready alpha! I'm on my way to Detroit! For some FUNNNNNNN! bubbles
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