alexjames Posted January 16, 2015 Posted January 16, 2015 I've been with my girlfriend for just around 6 months. She is certainly the girl that I want to spend my life with. she's beautiful, funny, sweet and I love her, so much. She also say the same about me and we are constantly talking about the future (even spoke about renting a place in a few months). We have had a few arguments in the past, and always worked things out. However, Tonight, I told her that I cant see her tonight because I have to be up early in the morning to see my mate who I haven't seen for weeks. She (this was by text) has been moaning at me ever since, telling me to F off, saying we both have different priorities and wants for the future and saying that she cant see us lasting any longer... This morning she told me how much she loved me! I don't have a clue whats happening, but this doesn't feel like the other fights, this feels much, much worse and more serious!
Author alexjames Posted January 16, 2015 Author Posted January 16, 2015 I've been with my girlfriend for just around 6 months. She is certainly the girl that I want to spend my life with. she's beautiful, funny, sweet and I love her, so much. She also say the same about me and we are constantly talking about the future (even spoke about renting a place in a few months). We have had a few arguments in the past, and always worked things out. However, Tonight, I told her that I cant see her tonight because I have to be up early in the morning to see my mate who I haven't seen for weeks. She (this was by text) has been moaning at me ever since, telling me to F off, saying we both have different priorities and wants for the future and saying that she cant see us lasting any longer... This morning she told me how much she loved me! I don't have a clue whats happening, but this doesn't feel like the other fights, this feels much, much worse and more serious! Sorry, the thread title was meant to say ''please help, before I lose her''!
Dontfindme Posted January 16, 2015 Posted January 16, 2015 Ultimately, you can't stop anyone from walking away if they want to. And why would you even want that? (I know, easier said than done.) Your girlfriend sounds a bit controlling and manipulative. If this is how she's going to be every time you have something else come up, where you can't prioritize her - are you okay with that? You shouldn't be. 1
Gloria25 Posted January 16, 2015 Posted January 16, 2015 Ultimately, you can't stop anyone from walking away if they want to. And why would you even want that? (I know, easier said than done.) Your girlfriend sounds a bit controlling and manipulative. If this is how she's going to be every time you have something else come up, where you can't prioritize her - are you okay with that? You shouldn't be. Agreed... She got all bent out of shape over that? And she's desperate enough to demand a shack-up situation? Dude, you're never gonna please this chick. If you wanna proceed with this, fasten your seatbelts for the rollercoaster that will follow...
CALOVELY Posted January 16, 2015 Posted January 16, 2015 From your other posts, it sounds like this woman has serious issues. She refuses to leave her house and wants you to come to her. This relationship is more trouble than it is worth and you two have been having problems seemingly from day one. Save your sanity and walk away.
d0nnivain Posted January 16, 2015 Posted January 16, 2015 Because you want to spend some time with a friend, she's hurling the F bomb at you? I'm sorry but you don't speak that way to people you love. Do not live with her. At this point, a mere 6 months in with the levels of maturity displayed here, you two are not ready for forever. If she can't give you this little thing with your buddy, she doesn't deserve you. Keep him. Ditch her. 1
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