Jadedbyluv Posted January 16, 2015 Posted January 16, 2015 So I've been casually hanging out with someone for a couple of months. It has been a no strings attached kind of situation from the beginning. This week he randomly asks if I've been on any dates lately. I was really confused as why he brought it up and said something to the effect that he likes me and likes the space I give him. And continues to say he doesn't know what he's capable of giving in a relationship because he can be self centered and likes his alone time. All of this brought up out of the blue. I didn't really say much because it was so unexpected. The next day he texts me and tells me he signed up for tinder. Random again. Am I reading into this? Does he want more than a friend with benefits? Why would he care if I'm going on other dates?
mammasita Posted January 16, 2015 Posted January 16, 2015 I would take it with a grain of salt. Look at what he followed up with.....signing up on Tinder. Not worth even trying to decipher.
Redhead14 Posted January 16, 2015 Posted January 16, 2015 So I've been casually hanging out with someone for a couple of months. It has been a no strings attached kind of situation from the beginning. This week he randomly asks if I've been on any dates lately. I was really confused as why he brought it up and said something to the effect that he likes me and likes the space I give him. And continues to say he doesn't know what he's capable of giving in a relationship because he can be self centered and likes his alone time. All of this brought up out of the blue. I didn't really say much because it was so unexpected. The next day he texts me and tells me he signed up for tinder. Random again. Am I reading into this? Does he want more than a friend with benefits? Why would he care if I'm going on other dates? You need to have an open discussion with him about what you want out of your dating experiences and find out exactly what he wants with you going forward. Don't make assumptions or try to manufacture possible meanings. Talk to him.
Winterina Posted January 16, 2015 Posted January 16, 2015 Ask him what he wants from you in his best case scenario. Informing you he signed up for Tinder is trying to show you something... either to make you jealous and trigger something in you (a passive aggressive and immature) or to tell you he does not care about serious relationship with you.
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