Koans Posted January 16, 2015 Posted January 16, 2015 (edited) So this one is unique I think. February 2014:She blocked me on FB when we broke up. She dumped me. July 2014:She unblocks me from FB. She resurfaced, right before she broke up with her rebound of 5 months. - I scared her away with a "Im in love with you still"/angry letter. Btw I think this gurl suffers from passive aggressive disorder. In my opinion. (theres a ****load to this story but w/e) November 2014: Im still unblocked from her FB. This is also the month her dad died. He died 6 months into our 3 yr relationship. Even though Im seeing her post a picture of how shes crying for her dad, I untagged and deleted anything related to her on FB. And she has a new boyfriend. Month or 2 after the 1st rebound. January 2015: I wanted to see how much I have improved, so I tested myself by going to her profile. Not only did she randomly re-block me after no contact since July...even her best friend blocked me. This one im puzzled as hell with. Ending: I feel like the tables have turned coz I have improved (not stereotypically) like gym, meet new ppl etc Even tho I have. But alot more on human psychology and human nature. I first didn't understand the reason why we broke up for months, and now I know her more than she knows herself. She is following me on snapchat even tho I havent reciprocated back to add her as a friend. But even after blocking me, she looks at all my snaps till this day.. I would appreciate comments more so on what you think is going through her mind psychology and in her point of view..that's what interest me. Thanx. ( Edited January 16, 2015 by Koans
Ieris Posted January 16, 2015 Posted January 16, 2015 Hmm... There may not be much to it, some people just get curious.
bigtrouble Posted January 16, 2015 Posted January 16, 2015 Yes, once, twice, thrice is curiosity, do it often and its an interest... Don't get your hopes high though. All that self improvement was for yourself and not to attract her back. She maybe in a rough spot of her life now and keep looking back at what she lost, it may be just that. 1
EgoJoe Posted January 16, 2015 Posted January 16, 2015 You're focused on the wrong person. Focus on you. You claim to know her better than herself and I believe this is unhealthy thinking. You must detach and become indifferent. 2
Simon Phoenix Posted January 16, 2015 Posted January 16, 2015 Instead of trying to figure out what she's thinking, it's time for you to concentrate fully on yourself. Trying to unlock the combination to her mind is pointless, counterproductive, and a complete waste of time and resources. 3
CALOVELY Posted January 16, 2015 Posted January 16, 2015 It has been nearly a year. Move on and focus on your own life. Whatever games and such she is playing should not matter, block her and let it go. 1
Marco Valerio Posted January 16, 2015 Posted January 16, 2015 Continue with your life, there's not much to think about it. She might still have some sort of feelings towards you (good ones or bad ones), the best thing to feel with exes is to be indifferent, that should be your case. Best regards. 1
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