KatZee Posted January 17, 2015 Posted January 17, 2015 i usually just say "hey, how are you?" works well enough for me This. ^^^ Online dating is NOT that hard, and at the end of the day, the only thing that matters are your photos. Your profile can essentially be bare bones but if the dude has a good number of quality photographs (you've gotten the tips already), a woman will respond. The photo is the ONLY thing I base my decision to respond or not. If I don't find myself attracted to the guy messaging me, he will not get a response. It doesn't matter what he says, what he incorporated from my profile, if it was witty, hilarious, or anything else. I tried looking at your profile but the photos are completely gone. So I guess I can't help you further.
KatZee Posted January 17, 2015 Posted January 17, 2015 Change your 1st date from "sushi at a upper class place". First, not everybody likes sushi. I hate the stuff. "at an upper class place" makes you sound like a snob & some girls may be intimidated. ^^ +1 I simultaneously rolled my eyes and went, "really?" When I got to that part. Kinda stuffy. Not intimidated, just kinda turned off. 1
Author cbplayer Posted January 17, 2015 Author Posted January 17, 2015 (edited) ^^ +1 I simultaneously rolled my eyes and went, "really?" When I got to that part. Kinda stuffy. Not intimidated, just kinda turned off. They're up again. I also edited by About Me section and made it more specific. Edited January 17, 2015 by cbplayer
40 Fonzarelli Posted January 17, 2015 Posted January 17, 2015 They're up again. I also edited by About Me section and made it more specific. Why don't you upload some pics of you smiling or having fun? You look a bit serious in all of your photos.
Author cbplayer Posted January 18, 2015 Author Posted January 18, 2015 Why don't you upload some pics of you smiling or having fun? You look a bit serious in all of your photos. I will take some pics of myself having fun with friends and smiling. What do you think of my about me?
EgoJoe Posted January 18, 2015 Posted January 18, 2015 You are trying too hard. Fix your spelling and grammatical errors. State what you want and say that you'll open up to the right person. Also. Less is more in the opening statement. Try just saying, "Hi, I'm (your name here). What is your name? I'd like to get to know you." Send that message to ten Women. Remove the question about their name if it's on their profile and just say, "Hi (her name), I'm (your name here). I'd like to get to know you." Practice not reading their messages quickly and responding when you're not doing anything else. This behavior is for you. It's just conversation at first so be easy. Delete your entire description and start over. Remove the black Zuckerberg comment. Don't talk about what you do. Say you love your job in IT. Not everything is valid here but Girls Chase | Get girls chasing YOU! How to meet women, get dates, have relationships has some decent tips. 1
Noproblem Posted January 18, 2015 Posted January 18, 2015 Your pictures! You need to take more and look at the camera, you pose like a model, seriously! what you wrote about yourself is really nice and I like how ambitious you are I hope you make it to Columbia university But you know you can tone it down a little bit when you said you are the next mark Women don't like someone who says hey I am the next Obama we want you to show us that you are really the next Obama!
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