Dork Vader Posted January 15, 2015 Posted January 15, 2015 I've been talking to this woman from a dating web site for people like me. That said we have been trying to meet up for nearly a month. She is supposedly pregnant. Every single time we have attempted to meet up something comes up morning sickness, cramping or something. Anyways Sunday we were supposed to meet again. She flaked again due to pregnancy issues. But this time she said "I adore you but I can't continue to do this to you it's not fair. You'll find someone blah blah blah." We continued to text then she asked me how my day was going. I did not respond. I was trying to decide how I felt and what was best for both of us. On monday I got a "i guess you don't even want to be friends." I was in the middle of writing her an email that said. I really like you and I can't just be friends with you. So I called her and told her I really like you and wanted to give you space you don't need stress. I had to go and we got off the phone text her good night. Tried calling her last night no answer she text me Good morning today we texted a bit and said we'd talk on the phone tonight when I called she did not answer. I asked if she was okay and what was going on? She said she was laying in bed and so on.. I asked her if she wanted to try and meet this weekend and she said she had plans with family saturday but if she wasn't busy sunday we could try. Even though she is pregnant I feel like she is treating me like an option. I'm here trying to make time to talk to her and she's busy. She doesn't have time to meet yet has time to go to lobster feeds with her family (she did). She got mad at me for saying I was going to date others. It's crazy, she has no time for me but I can't date others. I want to tell her "i really like you but I can't continue to put my life on hold. You don't have time to talk anymore and "might" meet me sunday if you have time." When you have time to date, when you can make some time for me. I'd love a chance to get to know you. Opinions?!
CarrieT Posted January 15, 2015 Posted January 15, 2015 I'm curious why you are trying to date a pregnant woman who clearly has and will have her hands full? 2
Gaeta Posted January 15, 2015 Posted January 15, 2015 Move to next. She is just looking for attention. How emotionally desperate do you have to be to have a dating profile up while pregnant. Doesn't she have better, bigger, more important business to take care of! 1
PegNosePete Posted January 15, 2015 Posted January 15, 2015 Don't get emotionally invested in someone you've never met. "She" cold be a group of giggling school boys for all you know. 1
Omei Posted January 15, 2015 Posted January 15, 2015 Your wasting your time Clearly she has no interest in meeting you and never did and the "I guess you didnt want to be friends then" says it all she wants your emotional support but thats it. Any woman interested in meeting a man would make that happen its how the world works with everything if someone wants something they do it if they dont then they dont do it. Stop wasting your time it shouldn't of taken a month to figure this out. 1
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