bentleyrios916 Posted January 15, 2015 Posted January 15, 2015 I don't like to use the word hate but I truly HATE him at times, he annoys every bone in my body , sometimes I get mad at the sound of his breathing.... before anyone says anything we do take breaks , yes we live together but he hangs out with his friends on occasions and I'm also rarely in the house I like to take my walks in the park or hang out with friends or family , but I just can't stand him !!!!! Everything he does or says irks me I just hate being around him , not to mention I'm almost 6 months pregnant.... It wasn't this bad before but I just can't shake the feeling its gonna get worse once the baby comes and last thing he's no saint , he verbally abuses me and threatens physical abuse if I don't do want he says.... He's always so down an depressed and when I try to comfort him he doesn't want my help so lately I've been backing off any advice. Should I elaborate more ???
whichwayisup Posted January 15, 2015 Posted January 15, 2015 (edited) Aww, congrats on your pregnancy... This is your hormones taking over. Right now you find him repulsive and annoying as heck, it'll all get better once you have your baby and the hormones change back to normal. Don't do anything rash, don't say stuff that you might regret. Be honest with him in the sense that you're hormones are all over the place and as much as you love him, you need A LOT of space. Get yourself to pregnancy yoga class, do meditation and bond with other women about this. Talk to your friends, sister if you have one, your mom etc.. Edit to add, has he always been a downer and abusive? Sorry, I didn't read your full story, my mistake... Since he is rude abusive and mean, then stay with your family or a trusted friend for a while until you figure out what you want to do. You need to be in a safe place, especially if you feel threatened by him. Edited January 15, 2015 by whichwayisup
d0nnivain Posted January 15, 2015 Posted January 15, 2015 If you are being abused & threatened call the police & leave. Your safety & that of your unborn child has to be paramount. If some of this is hyperbole, read 2 pop psychology books by Dr. Laura, The Care & Feeding of Husbands and the The Care and Feeding of a Marriage. Some of what she has to say is antiquated crap but there are a few kernels of truth including the idea that we all have to be appreciative of our spouses.
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