Lokin4AReason Posted January 15, 2015 Posted January 15, 2015 im in the same point in life .... its frustrating for sure ( esp. being separated ) but you have your health your own place and your own time between dating around the age(s) of 18 to 45 ( doesn't mean they will be flocking to my door like a stampede ) .... I just enjoy the company at the moment it ll come and be patient. just date around. see at what traits you like and dislike ( and work on those IMO )
Erised Posted January 15, 2015 Posted January 15, 2015 everyone at 38 think they look 28, that doesn't mean it's true. Without more detail, this is I'd guess the main problem. I went out with a guy who brought up how everyone thought he looked late 20's despite him being early/mid 40's. He was good looking, but he looked late 30's at least. I just smiled and nodded and agreed, because there's no need to disrupt someone's whole self image. I am younger and will date quite a bit older, though I get very skittish if they exclusively date younger women. That's a giant blaring red flag for issues. I hardly want someone interested in my for my youth. 1
dispatch3d Posted January 15, 2015 Posted January 15, 2015 This seems way too general to be productive. Complaining about the general dating pool is kinda meh. If you want to move to a new city by all means go for it, but as far as improving your options/getting more dates/finding the one I'd say work on it one girl at a time. Not all of them at once.
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