evanescentworld Posted January 14, 2015 Posted January 14, 2015 Well, it's like this. It's a free country, people would like to comment, It's a discussion forum, so that's quite natural - and they feel they would like to contribute. Why, what's your point in posting?
Emilia Posted January 14, 2015 Posted January 14, 2015 I can't believe this thread is still active... There's only one response to this, and it's already been said. What is wrong with everyone?! They don't realise that they have been had.
LookAtThisPOst Posted January 14, 2015 Posted January 14, 2015 Actually, in his defense.... the poster was only in high school when they met....that being said, at his you young age, he is first discovering his selection criteria. It was only when he started attending college is where he discovered his true attraction. Any how this goes for most anyone transitioning from high school to college as this is a point in life where high school relationships tend to part ways anyhow. I truly have no comment. I just don't know what to say to you. You already know you're shallow, judgemental, superficial and that you objectify women and value physique over temperament and character. That much is obvious. My only advice would be to break up with her, and tell her honestly why you can't be with her any more. Not to give your honesty any value, but just to show her what a shallow guy she's losing and how lucky she is to have dodged a bullet.
aggie382 Posted January 14, 2015 Posted January 14, 2015 I agree that you can't help what you're attracted to. But what I don't understand is that you started dating her years ago with this figure. It's not like you're trying to feel attraction to her at the very beginning. You liked her then, you don't like her now. It's not her petite frame that's the problem, it's that you're only as faithful as your options.
Gaeta Posted January 14, 2015 Posted January 14, 2015 I agree that you can't help what you're attracted to. But what I don't understand is that you started dating her years ago with this figure. It's not like you're trying to feel attraction to her at the very beginning. You liked her then, you don't like her now. It's not her petite frame that's the problem, it's that you're only as faithful as your options. He was a teenager when he met her. He is a man now. What you liked at 16 may have nothing to do with what you like at 20. At that age you are in constant evolution. It has nothing to do with being faithful or not. 1
aggie382 Posted January 14, 2015 Posted January 14, 2015 He was a teenager when he met her. He is a man now. What you liked at 16 may have nothing to do with what you like at 20. At that age you are in constant evolution. It has nothing to do with being faithful or not. I don't think so. What you're attracted to physically doesn't change that fast. And at 20 he's hardly a man. Lol
Author Palm Tree Dude Posted January 14, 2015 Author Posted January 14, 2015 Im still very indecisive so Im just gonna go with the flow for now and Idk whats to come of the future but Im just gonna deal with it. Partly because guilt/fear of regret/ and I wouldnt know how to break it off but Id like to say thanks to all of you. I read each and every comment and I really appreciate it. Im just gonna see where this takes me...
Redhead14 Posted January 14, 2015 Posted January 14, 2015 Hi everybody, I know this title makes me look like a jerk because of judging someone off a physical characteristic that is pretty much genetic but idk if I can do this anymore. My girl is honestly the woman every kind of man would want in their life, shes pretty, long luscious light brown curly hair, pretty much a genius and scholar, hilarious, and would drop whatever shes doing to help me but at the same time has a backbone. The only problem is she doesnt have my ideal body type. Being a black guy from the south I love thick corn bread fed women, not too big but just curvy. But my girlfriend is pretty thin standing at 5'3 105 pounds. I met her senior year of high school and we hit it off. I didnt pay too much attention to her body although I knew she wasnt that thick. Now 1 and 1/2 years later we find ourselves both in college and I come into contact with beautiful thick women and it drives me crazy. What makes it worse is that Im pretty handsome so maybe a couple times a week women always introduce themselves to me and they always seem to have amazing butts too. We've talked about our future together and getting married and having kids, even naming our future kids( At this time I was sincere). We both work at the same job now and go to class together. I feel like Im married to her already and we're only 20 years old. Im her first and only bf, shes attached to my hip. The thought of breaking her heart breaks mine so Im stuck. Her whole family loves me and my family loves her. My terrible rotten friends lol tell me to just get with a thick women and get it out my system but I couldnt do that. I feel like I meant the perfect girl but she just has one flaw its hard to get over. I only go "butt crazy" at school. When we make love I dont think about it, I enjoy it. Some say the butt size will is amazing others say it doesnt matter but I need advice....fyi I know Im a piece of crap bf no need to reiterate. If you read all this I truly appreciate you, all advice is help. I feel like Im married to her already and we're only 20 years old. Im her first and only bf, shes attached to my hip. There is more to this than the butt issue. You are feeling smothered. You were not so concerned about her behind in the beginning or a little later on as to not talk about marrying her and having kids and introducing her to your family so that is not really the issue now I'm thinking. You are simply having second thoughts about the relationship in general.
Nikki Sahagin Posted January 14, 2015 Posted January 14, 2015 It seems that you love your gf for her interior traits but are not physically attracted to her. Physical as well as emotional/mental attraction are important. But perhaps you are just being an oversexed, grass is greener on the other side 20 year old? (It's pretty normal) You can either: 1. Leave your gf and sow your oats 2. Understand that there is always someone better looking/curvier etc, but no other woman can be your gf, and make it work
EgoJoe Posted January 14, 2015 Posted January 14, 2015 Eighty percent sizzle and twenty percent content!
PutARingOnIt Posted January 14, 2015 Posted January 14, 2015 You're going to dump a good woman just because she has a small butt? Really?
elaine567 Posted January 14, 2015 Posted January 14, 2015 You're going to dump a good woman just because she has a small butt? Really? He's 20.
Gaeta Posted January 15, 2015 Posted January 15, 2015 It's not about the butt. She is 5'3'' and 100-lbs something. She is very thin. He said his type of woman is curvy-thick so she is missing more than just a butt to be sexually attractive in his eyes.
slizl Posted January 15, 2015 Posted January 15, 2015 All of you women are SO HYPOCRITICAL! If this was a posting about a guy with a 3 incher, everyone would be like, OHHH get rid of him, you need to be sexually satisfied, dump him now!!! Let me ask you ladies this, have you ever had sex with a girl with no ass? Doggystyle? No thanks. Maybe, just maybe, a girl having no ass is not sexually satisfying to some men...go figure. If you need a girl with an ass, go get one or tell her to hit the gym and do some squats.
xxoo Posted January 15, 2015 Posted January 15, 2015 It's not about the butt. She is 5'3'' and 100-lbs something. She is very thin. He said his type of woman is curvy-thick so she is missing more than just a butt to be sexually attractive in his eyes. But he IS attracted. It's like having a delicious filet mignon every day, and all you can think about is how good a piece of cake would taste. CAKE!
elaine567 Posted January 15, 2015 Posted January 15, 2015 Let me ask you ladies this, have you ever had sex with a girl with no ass? Doggystyle? No thanks. Maybe, just maybe, a girl having no ass is not sexually satisfying to some men...go figure. If you need a girl with an ass, go get one or tell her to hit the gym and do some squats The OP says he enjoys sex wth his GF if you actually read the thread. . When we make love I don't think about it(the butt), I enjoy it. AND All of you women are SO HYPOCRITICAL! If this was a posting about a guy with a 3 incher, everyone would be like, OHHH get rid of him, you need to be sexually satisfied, dump him now!!! Let me ask you ladies this, have you ever had sex with a girl with no ass? Doggystyle? No thanks. Maybe, just maybe, a girl having no ass is not sexually satisfying to some men...go figure. If you need a girl with an ass, go get one or tell her to hit the gym and do some squats. Any evidence that ALL of us women would tell someone to dump a guy with a 3 incher... 1
TheGuard13 Posted January 15, 2015 Posted January 15, 2015 It's not about the butt. She is 5'3'' and 100-lbs something. She is very thin. He said his type of woman is curvy-thick so she is missing more than just a butt to be sexually attractive in his eyes. THIS. Honestly, everything he says about this girl...She sounds like a nice girl, but not exactly one of a kind. People change, they grow apart, etc. He needs to do some soul searching. 1
slizl Posted January 15, 2015 Posted January 15, 2015 The OP says he enjoys sex wth his GF if you actually read the thread. AND Any evidence that ALL of us women would tell someone to dump a guy with a 3 incher... Try a forum search....
elaine567 Posted January 15, 2015 Posted January 15, 2015 Try a forum search.... "All of you women" is a huge generalisation and insulting. 1
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