pippen_2k Posted March 29, 2005 Posted March 29, 2005 After like 10 or 11 weeks, the girl who dumped me with no answers, and never responded to any of my messages or calls, rings me the other night! We talked for like an hour and a half, a bit of chit chat etc and then I went in for the kill seeking the answers I was looking for! Yep go me! We seemed both to agree that it was a big misunderstanding, and she looked too deep into things, thinking that I didnt want her and that I thought she was ugly... which I reassured her wasnt the case. We kept talking and I told her exactly how I felt about her and that I wanted to get back together and try again. She gave me the "I dont know what I want" answer and kind of left me hanging.. which I thought was very gutless. She said she cares about me, she misses me and has feelings for me... but just dosent know what she wants.....I asked her if she would like to meet up and see if anything eventuated, she said yes but didnt wanna give me false hope and hurt me anymore... So me being the fool I am thinks I am back in with half a chance! Anywayz me and some mates head out drinking the other night, and of course when I get home the alcohol gets the better of me and I start sending her stupid text messages, asking her to come over, and that I miss her etc etc... only to be ignored again for the next 5 days.... I even tried to appoligize and sent her a happy easter message only to get no reply either... This girl really has me in the palm of her hand and she controls the game here. I am actually not hurting that bad this week, cause I think my body and brain just cant handle the stress any more, so Im quite calm. Any insight into this would be appreciated, cause im on the verge of just giving up on this...
DandyBo Posted March 29, 2005 Posted March 29, 2005 You know pippen_2k? I have a friend who experience the same problem. I don't know whether it comes to an end but what this friend is doing is that he tried to be very chilled and didn't break down or stress out. It's just a girl. You seem to be a good guy who doesn't mind giving in. I don't seem to find a reason why she's reacting that way. But what I can advise you is that do not think too much about the girl. Ask yourself, are you still madly in love with her? Or just putting in high hopes? If you are, just be chilled, be confident, and just chilled, don't hurt yourself. And try to stay away from alchohol, it'll just make you silly! But if you find out that you are not in love with her, then hang out with your friends and socialise. Try to open your heart for other girls!
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