B-Eazy Posted January 13, 2015 Posted January 13, 2015 so i met this girl on New Years eve we hit it off we danced and flirted and had a great time. At one point she said give me your phone to which she put her name and number in it without me even asking. at the end of the night we hugged and kissed and that was it. A couple days later i texted her letting her know i had a great time and we exchanged texts back and forth for the next few days. She had mentioned to me that she was sick and apologized if she had given it to me. so i didnt want to ask her out while she isnt feeling well to at some point i said whenever you are better i would like to take you out so hurry up and get better . She said she will try! So i go out with a couple of friends to the same place that i met her and guess who i run into! It was her she looked super awkward and didnt look me in the eye. i went up to her and said hey how are you?! she then went on to say she still isnt feeling well and is DD for her friends and they were about to leave to the bar down the street and to come have a drink. Not two minutes after she left she texted me saying sorry it was loud i could barley hear you i have my hands full tonight my friends are on one. i didnt respond then she texted me at 4 in the morning just got all those crazy girls home i hope you made it in safely. I just want to know if she is simply being nice or actually interested. She is also takes a long time to reply to my texts she may be busy i understand but she usually always will respond maybe a day later i dont know if that is a sign of the interest level. I really need some advice on what to do
Frank2thepoint Posted January 13, 2015 Posted January 13, 2015 I just want to know if she is simply being nice or actually interested. You are confused. She isn't interested at all. The girl is playing a lot of mind games. For someone that is sick, she has no problem going out. Her excuse (it's really a lie) is her ammunition she can use to evade your advances. My advice is don't even bother pursuing her. You are wasting your time and energy. Delete her number and ignore her.
TheGagagirl1234 Posted January 13, 2015 Posted January 13, 2015 (edited) If I were you, I would observe her more. Not in a creepy, stalking way, but just slightly notice her actions when she's around you. Does she look at you a lot? Does she get really quiet as soon as she sees you? If yes, chances are that she might like you, but if she treats you like she treats everyone else, then she might just see you as a friend. Edited January 13, 2015 by TheGagagirl1234
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