NopeNah Posted January 13, 2015 Posted January 13, 2015 Met this girl at a sporting event and went to the pub after,made out,blah,blah..took her to dinner a couple days later,but I was sick,so just keep it to dinner and a few drinks..NOW she wants to take me to a concert and I'm not really feeling it. Could be that i'm a few months out of a breakup? I think i'm just not interested...How would you like to be let down?
Mangina Posted January 13, 2015 Posted January 13, 2015 Is she physically and emotionally attractive? In other words is she pretty with a good personality?
Author NopeNah Posted January 13, 2015 Author Posted January 13, 2015 Yes... she also has a young kid (4) and I don't want that anymore. My friends that do OLD tell me to "hit and run",but I do have some sort of conscience.
Rupert711 Posted January 13, 2015 Posted January 13, 2015 Simply politely decline her invitation. If she inquires why, tell her the truth - that you're not interested in dating.
Poppyolive Posted January 13, 2015 Posted January 13, 2015 Go with the truth. In the long run, its easier to take. Rather than her inviting you again or wondering what your thoughts are. Nip it in the bud. You could say, thanks for the invite. I had a fun time however, I feel, Romantically i am not there. And let her go. This ignoring til she gets the message, is super lame!
zen2475 Posted January 13, 2015 Posted January 13, 2015 I would be honest...just say since you are not that far out of your break up you really are not ready to date yet.
Author NopeNah Posted January 13, 2015 Author Posted January 13, 2015 Thanks! That's what I was thinking would be best.
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