fallinginreverse Posted January 13, 2015 Posted January 13, 2015 So I dated this girl for close to 6months last year. Great awesome girl. When we got together she was in her senior yera of college and also working two jobs. We started dating but she said she didn't want it to turn serious right away because she just didnt have the time for a serious relationship with work and school but would like to date and see where it leads. i agreed because i didnt want to jump into anything after getting out of a 1 1/2 year relationship. we both agreed to see what happened after she graduated college (where she would get a job at) and if we both were comfortable we would take the next step to becoming a couple before she graduated though she dumped me. i couldnt figure out why but she just said she couldnt do a relationship afetr all a couple weeks later i was talking to her and she said she didnt feel a commitment from me or that i felt strongly about her,,..she said when she asked me about my feelings i would just say "i like where we are at and should see what happens after you graduate" in truth i was crazy about her but didnt want to scare her off....she said becaus ei kept saying that she didnt think i was serious about continuing us and dint want to get hurt i told ehr how i truly felt but she said it was just to late now im sitting here wondering why i held back my feelings. i beliece its cuz i didnt want to scare her off since we both agreed NOT TO take it anywhere until after she graduated did i mess up that bad? should i ahve just told her how i felt
HereNorThere Posted January 13, 2015 Posted January 13, 2015 If she were really that interested, you wouldn't have a problem. When someone really, really likes you, you can't keep them away of you try. She sounds kinda wishy washy about it and likes using your situation to put the blame. If she really wanted a relationship, she'd jump right in. 1
LostOnes05 Posted January 13, 2015 Posted January 13, 2015 Yea, I agree. If you would have confessed your love for her, she would have said you were coming on too strong. That's women bro. If it's not one thing, it's another.
Author fallinginreverse Posted January 13, 2015 Author Posted January 13, 2015 i could see little hints she was dropping that she liked me alot but i just never made a move
Assada Posted January 14, 2015 Posted January 14, 2015 Alll the stuff she told you is hogwash, to let you down easy, and to let her feel better about herself. - Looks like you fell for it. She never liked you romantically, because nothing is ever too late. You werent anything special, and now she probably has someone she has her eye on As simple as that
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