Dork Vader Posted January 13, 2015 Posted January 13, 2015 Okay I've taken the advice of other members on here and have been casually dating a few different women.. This is not the same women from the other post. One lives about 4 hours of north of me. Normally I would not be open to long distance dating but I have HSV-2 and prefer to date others that have it. That said I met someone who is in the same boat as me. We had plans to meet the Day after Christmas but I woke up to a I just found out I'm pregnant don't waste your time on me. I was okay with her being pregnant and she still wanted too try and date. So we made plans to meet the following weekend. She then flakes because of bad morning sickness. I ask her what day that weekend would work she kind of beat around the bush and I finally said I made plans so it's either Friday or Sunday. She picks Sunday and again flakes because of the morning sickness. So she says she will come to my town on Thursday. That day she had a doctors appointment and her blood pressure was low. She again can't make it. This time she tells me she should have told me to continue to date. I said well I'm probably going to start to date other women. She got up set, we talked it out and made plans too try and meet up Sunday. Sunday rolls around and she tells me she is spotting and can't meet up. That I should start dating other people. The whole situation is not fair too me. That she had 3 dreams that I relapsed because of her. I said okay we talked a bit through text. Then I kind of just quit responding. She asked how my day went and I never responded. I don't know what to say or do? I'm very interested in meeting her and dating. But I also do not want to be stress to her pregnancy. Opinions? A friend suggested I just give her space.
Ebelskiver Posted January 13, 2015 Posted January 13, 2015 Pregnancy can be really tough on a woman. Morning sickness so disabling you can only lay down, horrible bloating and constipation, mood swings, sore breasts. It sucks for a lot of women. That said, why start a new relationship with someone who is pregnant when the child isn't yours? It just seems to be setting you up for drama. It would be one thing if you were really into each other and then she found out she was pregnant from a previous relationship. But you don't even know each other!
Author Dork Vader Posted January 13, 2015 Author Posted January 13, 2015 Yeah I have had a few friends ask me that. But why not? I've made mistakes I have herpes. It does not really change who she is. So I don't see any wrong in getting to know her.
carhill Posted January 13, 2015 Posted January 13, 2015 When people tell you to not waste your time and to date someone else, believe them.
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