pink_sugar Posted January 13, 2015 Posted January 13, 2015 So I work in an office of 10-15 people and everyone is pretty close knit and even somewhat cliquey. Most have been there a while. There is this one guy is fairly reserved. He would talk to me on occasion, but lately I try to initiate small talk occasionally and he either gives one word answers or ignores what I say. Maybe it's me, but he still seems to talk to everyone else normally. Not sure what his deal is. Thoughts?
preraph Posted January 13, 2015 Posted January 13, 2015 I think he's uncomfortable with so much small talk and you should stop talking small talk to him. Just nod and smile and say hi instead. 1
Author pink_sugar Posted January 13, 2015 Author Posted January 13, 2015 I will definitely do that. It just seems weird since he seems to carry on conversation with almost everyone else. I guess I'm just wondering if it's something I said.
Satu Posted January 13, 2015 Posted January 13, 2015 I think it unlikely that you something wrong. Try not to worry about it too much. 1
Author pink_sugar Posted January 13, 2015 Author Posted January 13, 2015 I think it unlikely that you something wrong. Try not to worry about it too much. Thanks. I just hate feeling left out sometimes like I don't fit in.
karmasama Posted January 14, 2015 Posted January 14, 2015 People have and can have many reasons beyond your guess. Just try to be your normal self.
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