B-Eazy Posted January 12, 2015 Posted January 12, 2015 so i met this girl on New Years eve we hit it off we danced and flirted and had a great time. At one point she said give me your phone to which she put her name and number in it without me even asking. at the end of the night we hugged and kissed and that was it. A couple days later i texted her letting her know i had a great time and we exchanged texts back and forth for the next few days. She had mentioned to me that she was sick and apologized if she had given it to me. so i didnt want to ask her out while she isnt feeling well to at some point i said whenever you are better i would like to take you out so hurry up and get better . She said she will try! So i go out with a couple of friends to the same place that i met her and guess who i run into! It was her she looked super awkward and didnt look me in the eye. i went up to her and said hey how are you?! she then went on to say she still isnt feeling well and is DD for her friends and they were about to leave to the bar down the street. Not two minutes after she left she texted me saying sorry it was loud i could barley hear you i have my hands full tonight my friends are on one. i didnt respond then she texted me at 4 in the morning just got all those crazy girls home i hope you made it in safely. I just want to know if she is simply being nice or actually interested. She is also takes a long time to reply to my texts she may be busy i understand but she usually always will respond maybe a day later i dont know if that is a sign of the interest level. I really need some advice on what to do
katlover Posted January 12, 2015 Posted January 12, 2015 Sounds to me like she isn't interested in anything more than a friendship. She made excuses not to be with you and you caught her. She felt bad afterwards so she texted you at 4 a.m. If she really liked you she would've tried to make a date for the both you instead of giving you some b.s excuse. This woman is giving you excuses after excuses. I wouldn't get too excited about this girl. I could be wrong, but my advice would be to not get your hopes high for this girl unless she starts showing you that she really interested in you. Which in this case, it doesn't sound like she is. Perhaps you were misled by the way you two interacted during new years, but people can have a change of heart over night.
preraph Posted January 13, 2015 Posted January 13, 2015 I don't know. I mean, she did keep texting you and stuff. You know how if you are really involved with friends, they will talk you into stuff, even if you are sick or something. If she was the one invited, it wasn't up to her to invite anyone else. You had no firm agreement about anything. Wait a day or two and ask if she wants to go out.
xXMarlboro_ManXx Posted January 13, 2015 Posted January 13, 2015 It sounds like she is keeping you on the back burner but it is not cut and dry. Take it easy and play it by ear maybe wait a week and ask if she is feeling better and ask her out. If she is still washy washy you will will have your answer.
Author B-Eazy Posted January 13, 2015 Author Posted January 13, 2015 She did text me the next day making a point of saying she shouldn't of went out last night while sick because she was feeling worse now. i just don't understand why she would feel the need to justify herself if she wasn't interested. i understand we never made any agreement on when we were going out either
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