unagedtiger Posted January 12, 2015 Posted January 12, 2015 I'm in this religious social group that meets once or twice a week. I met this lady I'm attracted to and it's been 8 months. At first she was always distancing herself, but lately she has been more friendly. Whenever I feel like giving up, she is friendly. When I have some hope, she's far away. She laughs at my jokes and sometimes seem excited to see me. But at other times, she isn't. Maybe just busy? Is she just good at hiding or not interested? And no one in the group has any clue I like her. In fact, no one besides me knows it. She doesn't have any clue either. (other girls in the group like me, but I don't like them back. I kind of avoid them whenever they approach me). I'm in the process of losing weight to get back in shape. (I definitely do get more check-outs when I'm in shape, yes ladies are shallow too). Shall I wait until my process completes or ask now? She's one year younger.
Light Breeze Posted January 12, 2015 Posted January 12, 2015 (edited) Life's short. Just go for it. You know her for 8 months, she won't notice your weight loss. Edited January 12, 2015 by Light Breeze
Author unagedtiger Posted January 12, 2015 Author Posted January 12, 2015 Life's short. Just go for it. You know her for 8 months, she won't notice your weight loss first. She also has a very outgoing social personality. Hard to tell whether she's being politely nice or interested. But I guess I'll go for it.
Light Breeze Posted January 12, 2015 Posted January 12, 2015 Yes, brother, you won't know until you try it.
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