sanne Posted March 28, 2005 Posted March 28, 2005 On accident, since I can't seem to say no to her, I agreed to have dinner with her tonight. This was before I started reading about NC on loveshack, and decided that we just couldn't ever be friends since I still love her so much. Now she's calling me and sending txt messages asking me if I still want to go to dinner tonight. I know that if I'm really serious about moving on, I can't see her anymore, and that I need to just send a txt message back saying I can't go and make up some phony excuse. But a part of me is wondering if she still wants to be with me or not, and if she is waiting until tonight to tell me. I'm so confused, if I decline now and tell her I can't be friends I may lose her forever. But if I take this chance and have dinner with her I could be opening myself up for a whole bunch of hurt down the road if I get rejected. I just don't know what to do anymore.
Naive Posted March 29, 2005 Posted March 29, 2005 Originally posted by sanne On accident, since I can't seem to say no to her, I agreed to have dinner with her tonight. Come on!!!! It was so NOT an accident, you did what your heart told you to do.......F*CK that No Contact BS!!!! Taking your chances is better than never knowing.
Author sanne Posted March 29, 2005 Author Posted March 29, 2005 alright alright......well I agreed to have dinner anyways. She seemed very excited. Anyways, I'll lay it all on the table tonight and let her know my position. I don't really have anything left to lose, and if she says no way then I'll be able to go my separate way with the satisfaction that I did everything I could to save things.
Author sanne Posted March 29, 2005 Author Posted March 29, 2005 i finally did it. we went to dinner tonight, had a great time, afterwards when i went to drop her off I asked her the question. she said she just doesn't see things ever working out, to which i replied then I just can't see us being friends working out. kicked her out of my life, and i won't ever speak to her again.
Naive Posted March 29, 2005 Posted March 29, 2005 Unless "accidentally" you agree to go out with her again.
beatjunkies Posted March 29, 2005 Posted March 29, 2005 she knows that she has the upper hand because you let her know how you feel and you are there for her still waiting so yeah.. basically she was calling you out on saying she didnt see things working out.. so you gave her what she wanted.. No like the last poster go to NC and let her choice on not wanting to be with you stew inside her.. You know her decision and she knows yours.. You cannot contact her now.. you are at the point of no return.. YOU cannot say what you did and then contact her !!!!! Trust me I think she will be in contact with you very soon.. just wait for her to call you and I would ignore the first call.. Then on the second call be like yeah ?? what do you want ?? Oh your worried about her calling you ?? trust me she will call you ! What if she thinks that by not answering if she calls that I dont want her.. You told her that you dont and her curiousity is going to kill her and she will call you again for sure !! Id bet my right testi on it !!! Just see how things go and you better update us on this !!! Take it easy bro !!
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