Nancy4984 Posted March 28, 2005 Posted March 28, 2005 Need some advice, I am currently about 1500 miles away from my LT BF, I have been gone since January to attend school, which I will be done in May. My BF has not even attempted to come visit me on a weekend and I feel like he doesn't even miss me...Should I be concerned about his actions??...Is this a sign that he really doesn't miss me all that much, since I haven't seen him in 3 months...Whenever we talk (which is alot) he never expresses how much he misses me, it is really hurting my feelings...He'll only say it, if I say it first and I stopped saying it to see if he would, but nothing..Do you think he should be making some sort of effort?? We have been together 6 years...................
clynn Posted March 29, 2005 Posted March 29, 2005 Maybe he isn't very expressive? As for not seeing you, can he afford it?
latesleeper Posted March 29, 2005 Posted March 29, 2005 Maybe you can tell him how you feel and that you'd appreciate him being more expressive. He can always write you a little note if he doesn't feel like saying it out loud or not used to it. After all, you've known him for 6 years. You ought to be able to share your thoughts with him, especially about how you feel. One thing about people, never expect them to read your mind. They'd appreciate having some tips too! Good luck!
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