OrangeSnack Posted January 12, 2015 Posted January 12, 2015 Been dating this girl for a month. She's older than me by 3 years. All of our dates have been fantastic. We got flirty on the third date before I left town for work. We held hands on the third date and I knew from that moment on I wanted to see more of her. Anyway I had to leave for work for about two weeks. On our last date (3rd week) she briefly mentioned to me that it was going to be her birthday this coming week. I said oh wow then We will have to celebrate when I get back! She said sure!! So I kissed her on the cheeks and she gave me a really hard huh... During this period of time we kept in touch via texting. Okay well actually I kept in touch cuZ I did all the initiation. I didn't over text her but I'll send her a text every other day just to see how she's doing and she'll respond within a few minutes. On her birthday I texted her happy bday and sent her a customized iPhone card with a picture of both of us and a special (not too formal) note. She said thanks and we had a short convo after that. I asked her if she was going out for dinner and she hasn't responded ever since then... It's been 3 days since I haven't heard from her so I decided to give her a ring today around noon. After several buzzes it goes to voicemail and I leave a 2-3 minute voicemail about where I am and happy belated birthday and that I hope she had a good weekend. Still no response and it's been a day. What gives? Did she already lose interest? Thoughts and advice?
newlyborn Posted January 12, 2015 Posted January 12, 2015 yes, i think she lost interest. when someone ignores multiple contacts, that usually means that their interest has waned. why did you go on three dates without a kiss? it sounds odd that you gave her this coupl-y birthday gift but had not even kissed yet. so, i feel like you have moved both too fast (emotionally) and too slow (physically). you may hear from her again, in which case i suggest that you do not, thereafter, initiate all contact and do try to build on the physical chemistry when in person. oh, and date others in the meantime.
Assada Posted January 12, 2015 Posted January 12, 2015 You are in face needy. Calm your ass down and do your own thing
Author OrangeSnack Posted January 13, 2015 Author Posted January 13, 2015 You are in face needy. Calm your ass down and do your own thing Wow really? I never really thought I was needy. Dang... Maybe you're right, I guess I just need to back down a bit.
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